“The only barriers to success are the ones you create in your own mind.” — Brian Tracy

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It doesn’t matter what you are wanting to be successful in, whether you want to be successful in business, releasing excess weight, playing a winning game of golf or whatever.

Success is in the mind.

Success or failure comes from what is going on in your MIND. That is why it is imperative that you make changing negative thinking a priority. Negative thinking can really put a damper on the success of whatever goals you are working toward, especially if there are changes involved. You can talk yourself in or out of something because deep inside you are unsure or afraid. Your subconscious mind is always operating and it can be steering you in the wrong direction. It means well but it can be influenced by things from the past, people around us and many other influences. These things going on our head affect our beliefs. The negative thinking causes limiting beliefs.

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You can influence your subconscious to work more in harmony with your goals for progressing in all sorts of areas in life but especially in building your network marketing business. I recommend reading the book The Power of Your Subconscious Mind by Joseph Murphy. I have read several of his books and found them to be very helpful in understanding how powerful a tool we have in our own mind.

Napoleon Hill said, “Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve.”

If you believe it, you can see it accomplished. This is why I want to talk about EFT and the power of BELIEF!

Do you BELIEVE you will be able to reach your goals? Do you BELIEVE you can build a successful network marketing business? Do you believe anyone can build a successful business in the network marketing industry? This is something you need to think about. What you believe affects how successful you will be. It’s SO important to have a strong belief. We become what we believe.

If you can’t see it and BELIEVE it, you will have a really tough time reaching goals, especially goals where you need to step outside of your comfort zone like building a successful business, fitness goals learning new skills, and lots of other things.

Picturing, visualizing success is one important way to start building belief. See it! Feel it! BELIEVE it!

Young Living has a wonderful oil blend that helps with belief. It’s called Believe and is POWERFUL along with Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT).

Here is a quote from Gary Young on Believe essential oil: “Believe is an oil blend that really goes into the deep recesses of the brain and starts to establish your belief system in the DNA, and this is where Believe really works in the telomeres of the DNA strands in transmitting that information to the MRNA, the memory recall center. Believe is really powerful there. If you are believing that you cannot go out and build a business, if you are believing you cannot sponsor somebody cold on the street, then that will be your outcome.
If you want to change that then you can start putting some oil blends together like Acceptance, Release, Motivation…until you can start working toward that space of ‘I believe I can do this.’ ”

Believe essential oil is one that you will want to deeply inhale as you think about affirmations and visualize reaching your goals.

Using Believe essential oil along with tapping is a great way to way to help clear any limiting beliefs that block your success. You can also use the tapping to enhance visualization and affirmations. Just tap through the EFT points as you are visualizing your success or saying affirmations. EFT is also great for releasing doubts and fears that get in the way of belief in your abilities.

Just add a couple drops of oil to your fingertips and start tapping through the points. You can add specific doubts and fears where you want in with the tapping script. You can also tap through several times if you need a little more clearing on the issue.

Try this tapping script when you feel your belief slipping:

Even though I’m having doubts about my success, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though I have doubts I can be successfully reach this goal, I choose to BELIEVE I can do it.
Even though my doubts are blocking my success, I’m willing to grow in confidence and belief.

I have all these doubts about success.
Can anyone be successful in this?
Can I be successful?
I have these doubts in my abilities.
I’m full of doubts.
I see others having success but I don’t know if I can do it too.
I really want to reach this goal.
I know this is just a lack of confidence.
I know there are ways to do this business that I can feel comfortable with.
I choose to feel confident.
I am moving forward in spite of my doubts.
I release the emotional attachment to the belief that success is for other people but not for me.
I can release all the doubts.
I choose to release all these doubts.
I am releasing the doubts.
I am releasing all the doubts about my ability to do this _______.
I am releasing all the doubts.
I can believe in myself.
I will let myself be full of confidence and belief.
I choose to believe in myself.

I choose to know I can reach my goals.
I love releasing the doubts.
I radiate confidence and belief.
I choose to be full of passion and abundance.
I love how confident I am feeling.
I am so strong and confident, other people are noticing it.
I radiate strong belief and confidence in myself.
I love how I feel when I know I am attracting abundance.
I LOVE that I am attracting the life I want.
I am a very successful, magnetic leader full of BELIEF!
Every CELL in my body is full of magnetic ABUNDANCE.
I am confident and successful, full of belief and passion.

Take a deep breath.

You might need to tap through this a few times, especially if you have a deeply ingrained fear that success is for other people but not for you. Change up the words if you need to. Tap about whatever fear or negative feeling you have.

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Jim Rohn was full of wise words for entrepreneurs. I listened to audio recordings pretty much on a daily basis in the beginning of my network marketing career. Actually I still listen to Jim Rohn audios, especially when I feel unmotivated.


The quote above seems pretty simple. If you want something bad enough, you’ll find a way. That’s an important attitude to have as you build your network marketing business. Is that the way you approach your business?


I remember when I was starting out in network marketing. I was in desperate financial situation. We nearly lost our house. There were bill collectors calling. It was a really rough time. That was fifteen years ago. That troubled time was a blessing because it was during that time that I found the company that I would build my career in network marketing. It was the answer to our financial problems and it would eventually give us full time FREEDOM!


That freedom my family and I experience is the reason I feel very passionate about helping other people experience freedom for themselves.


Network Marketing is awesome but it requires serious hard work. Most people will not ever see time and financial freedom because they are not willing to do what it takes to be successful.


Do you know what you want?


Do you know your WHY?


Do YOU want to build a network marketing business big enough to experience time and financial freedom?


Are you willing to learn the marketing skills you need to build a successful business?


Are you willing to put in the time and be regularly and consistently doing what it takes?


Sadly, some marketers give up because things aren’t happening as fast as they would like. They have an attitude of, “I’ll give it a try and see what happens.”


You can’t approach your business with a try, we’ll see what happens attitude. That is a recipe for failure. The first bump in the road is often all it takes to derail people with a “try” attitude.


There WILL be bumps in the road. There will be many bumps. Sometimes it it will get down right discouraging but you MUST have an attitude of, “I WILL make this work! I will find a way!”


When you have a determined, nothing can stop me attitude, you don’t give up when things get tough. You make adjustments when something isn’t working. You know you will get there.


If you hang in there, you can do it. The fact that you are reading this article shows that you are taking the success of your business seriously.


To help you I made an EFT Tapping session on having a “Never Give Up” attitude.





EFT Tapping script in case you want to print

Think about WHY you are building this business.

Start tapping on the eyebrow point. (You can tap through any of the points)

I am going to succeed at this business.
I want this!
I am successful already because I am NOT giving up!
I will stick with it until I get there.
I want this, and I will fight for my dreams!
I know I can do this.
I start every day remembering WHY I am building this business.
I want this and I am not giving up.
I know there will be bumps in the road, but I will keep working at it.
I am persistent and focused on doing what it takes.
I keep learning and getting better.
I am developing new talents that I am using in my business.
I know I will make mistakes, but I am not afraid to make a mistake.
I refuse to give up.
I’m getting stronger and more confident every day.
I view the bumps in the road as exercises that strengthen me.
Setbacks do NOT scare me.
I make adjustments as I go.
I am exercising my skills.
I see others who have done what I want to do.
If they can do it, I can too.
I know where I am going and I persist towards my goal.
I am persistent and I am reaching my goals.
I want this and I am NOT giving up!
I am willing to put in the time and do the work.
I am willing to learn what I need to learn.
I’m NOT giving up!!
I know I can do this!
I refuse to give up.
I am relentless and persistent.
I am gratefully allowing success.

Take a big deep breath.

Feel free to return as often as you want and use any of the EFT tapping sessions.



EFT Tapping - Never Giving Up Tapping

I learned “WHAT IF” tapping from Carol Look, one of my favorite EFT mentors.  Adding the question, WHAT IF?  to your tapping allows you to imagine the possibilities, looking beyond what you see in your life right now. It is our limiting beliefs that can get in the way of the success we would like to see. It is important to believe you can achieve your goals.
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Most people aren’t thinking of ranking to Diamond or Royal Crown Diamond when they start out. It’s always the income. It’s a way to take control of your financial situation, whether to add a little extra income or to grow it into a business that could become fulltime income.

If you have the belief that earning substantial full time income in your network marketing business, will happen for other people but not for you, this limiting belief can get in the way and become a block to your success in the business.

If you have the belief that people can’t afford to buy products or the belief that you can’t build a business during a bad economy, these are limiting beliefs that will block your success.

Here is an important fact to remember: Network Marketing and Direct Sales businesses thrive during economic down times. People are often looking for ways to supplement their income, PLUS, many of the products offered by these companies are things people use on a daily basis. Why not earn a little income from things people need to use every day. Examples are cleaners, laundry soap, personal care products, health and stress relief and more.

Let’s clear those limiting beliefs right now.

Use the What If tapping to look beyond your limiting belief to visualize the possibilities and What if YOU can TOO? When you feel any limiting beliefs coming up, focus on those and keep tapping through the points and releasing the limiting beliefs.

For this tapping, I like to use essential oil blends that help you relax and think about the future. A few Young Living Oil Blend possibilities are: Abundance, Envision, Believe, Magnify Your Purpose, Transformation, Into The Future, Valor.

There are lots of possibilities for oils to use. Go with whatever feels right to you. The added essential oil is not necessary but the oil helps infuse extra energy into your tapping session.

If you are using essential oil in your tapping session, just add a couple drops to your fingertips before you begin tapping and start tapping through the points:

Starting on the Karate Chop point:

Even though I don’t believe I can build a strong income with this business, especially in this bad economy, WHAT IF I have been wrong about this?
Even though building a substantial income with network marketing works for other people but not me, WHAT IF I could actually build a full time income.
Even though I have had all these limiting beliefs about my ability to build a strong, abundant, income producing network marketing business, WHAT IF it IS possible for me?

Now tap through the rest of the points: (It doesn’t really matter which points, just tap through.)

What If I really could build this business into a substantial income?
What if I have learned someone else’s wrong limiting belief about success being for other people but not me?
What if the limiting beliefs I have learned are NOT TRUE?
What if I am in control of all of these limiting beliefs?
What if I am a really powerful business builder?
What if I really am a Diamond in the making?
What if, all this time my limiting beliefs have been blocking my efforts and making me spin my wheels. I have been blocking I have to do is believe it’s possible?
What if limiting beliefs are slowing me down like a stuck wheel on a shopping cart?
What if I can release these limiting beliefs and blocks to my building an abundantly income producing network marketing business?
What if I can actually build a business that would, not only help me but also help many others build a strong income working from home.
What if I am just as deserving and capable as anyone else who has built a successful business working from home?
What if I do have what it takes to build this business as big as I want it, all the way to the top rank?
What if I really CAN do this?
What if I DO deserve an abundantly successful income producing Diamond sized business just as much as they do?
What if I am releasing these blocks and limiting beliefs right now?
What if I am leading a team of happy abundantly income producers right now?
What if we are releasing our limiting beliefs and helping each other build this business?
What if I really could believe it?
Why NOT?
I’m not so different as they are!
I’m sure some of them had limiting beliefs too.
They just kept moving forward toward the goal!
One day at a time.
One Income Producing DAY at a time!
I can do that too!!!
I KNOW I can!
I have oils and EFT to help me.
I’m tapping away any limiting beliefs!
I am releasing the emotional attachment to the belief that I can’t build this business into a substantial income!
I really CAN do this!
I am attracting strong, confident, successful business builders and we are building a strong, abundant, income producing network marketing business TOGETHER!

Take a deep breath!

I recommend doing this tapping session daily. Things will come up in daily life. There will be things that feel frustrating. Unexpected bills, a pandemic or who knows what. When that happens, keep moving forward with tapping and clearing limiting beliefs. I will be doing it with you! Together we can do this!! 😉

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Abundance and Gratitude essential oil blends are two oils I like to recommend to lift the abundance attracting energy and focus on growing your home business. Abundance Oil is a good one for when you want a more abundant energy and attracting good things. Gratitude Oil is great for focusing on feeling grateful.

Gratitude is one of the most powerful positive abundance attracting energies. Focusing in the things you are grateful for. This shifts out of negative and into a much better energy. It affects the mood for the better and makes everything better.

I recommend using some Gratitude Oil along with Gratitude Tapping. Try it. It’s a wonderful uplift.
Add a couple drops of Gratitude Oil on your fingertips before you begin tapping through the EFT Points.

If you don’t know how to do EFT, go to the website below and see how to do this easy Emotional Freedom Technique.
https://www.melodiekantner.com/how-to-do-eft

Gratitude Tapping

Today was an abundant day.
How abundant I am!
I found money on the ground!
Yeah! I love attracting good things!
I got a coupon for $10.00 off business supplies at Staples.
My hubby did the dishes so I could do a little watercolor painting.
The wren singing in the tree outside my window as I paint.
The beauty of creation.
I learned a great business tip online.
My son saying, “Hey mom. You wanna hang out on Zoom?”
The smell of Rose Oil.
Clean sheets.
Fresh roasted coffee.

You get the idea. Just tap through the points and think of all the abundant things that happened during the day.

When you find even one penny, it’s MONEY! Say I attracted MONEY, not a penny. Your subconscious doesn’t know the difference between a penny and money.

Here’s another option:

Just start in tapping when something abundant happens. This is a great time to tap because you are feeling the abundant emotion. That is powerful and you can enhance it and program it into your cells by tapping. Discreetly tap on your fingers at the base of the nail. ?

How abundant I am!
I found more money!
I am always finding money!
That is SO COOL!
It seems like I find money wherever I go.
It’s like I am a magnet attracting money.
I LOVE attracting money!
I’m so ABUNDANT!

Abundance Oil is one that we really need, especially in the stressful times we are living and the economy worries many people are feeling.

If you are familiar with the Law of Attraction, you know that what you focus on you attract more of. When you worry and stress over the economy, you hinder the abundant energy you have in your body. That makes it almost impossible to build a business or attract any kind of abundance.

I have seen the Law of Attraction working from both sides. Years ago, I went through a time where I was desperate to generate enough income to just make ends meet. I was in a sales job with a home cleaning system where I had to visit people’s home to demonstrate the cleaner and only got paid when I sold one. It seemed as though I couldn’t sell one if my life depended on it. Actually, my financial life did depend on it.

I didn’t understand the Law of Attraction back than but I do today. The reason I couldn’t make any sales is because I had an energy vibration of desperation. I desperately needed a sale. I was radiating that desperate energy. People could feel it. I didn’t realize I was affecting people with my desperate energy.

Here is another example – Around that same time my husband and I were traveling and doing art shows for our jewelry designs. Mark, my husband, made flameworked glass beads and I did copper enamel designs. We put them together with gemstones and made beautiful works of wearable art.

We won several best of show awards with our designs and even drew crowds with Mark demonstrating glass bead making over a flame, but making enough money to create a living was a real struggle. We would often just cover show expenses.

Oh, how I wish I had known about Abundance oil back then! Well, today I am so very grateful for Abundance oil blend. It is, hands down, my favorite oil. I use it EVERY DAY. By using Abundance oil, I become like a magnet attracting abundance. I would never consider touching anything business related without using Abundance oil first.

Abundance is a blend that raises your energetic vibration to attract greater prosperity into your life. It is an oil blend that is “created to enhance the frequency of the harmonic magnetic energy field that surrounds us. This higher frequency creates the “law of attraction,” a harmonic magnetic energy field around oneself.

How To Use Abundance Oil Blend

Use Abundance Oil blend first thing in the morning to get a good energy for the day, then use it whenever you feel the need for an abundant lift. Put 2 or 3 drops in your hands and rub together. Inhale deeply.

Use Abundance Oil before doing anything business related.

Add a few drops of Abundance Oil to cleaning water, especially when cleaning your office.

Diffuse it in your home office.

Put Abundance Oil on before paying bills.

Use Abundance Oil With EFT.

An example of an EFT session below on worries about the economy. You could also use Peace & Calming for the first part of the tapping script while you focus on negative emotions, then shift to Abundance Oil and focus on more positive abundance attracting energy.

Add a couple drops of Essential Oil to your fingertips before you begin tapping.

Tapping on the Karate Chop Point:

Even though I am afraid because of the economy, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though the news is full of depressing things about the economy and people losing their jobs, I choose to accept myself and release my fears.
Even though I am worried about how will we will pay all our bills during this worrisome time, I choose to accept myself and release my fears.

Tapping through the EFT Points: (It doesn’t matter which points, just tap through)

This economy is so scary.
I am afraid there isn’t enough income these days of quarantine.
The news is full of scary things.
So stressful.
I have bills to pay and obligations to meet.
I am feeling all this stress.
Stress and worry.
What if this gets worse?
I can’t help but to worry about the future.
I’m a little afraid there is no hope.
Feeling stress and fear.
OK, I know these negative thoughts only feed the fear.

I choose to shift to a better energy.
Negative thoughts and feelings block abundance.
I am choosing a better energy.
I am releasing the fear about the economy.
We have been through bad economy before.
Releasing negative emotions about the economy.
Releasing the fear that there is not enough money.
Release and let go of fears about income.
Releasing fears about the economy.
Letting go of the fear that there will never be enough.
I am releasing the fear that I won’t be able to pay my bills.
Letting go of the stress.
I am releasing all my fears about the economy.

I choose to feel calm and safe.
I feel confident in my ability to attract the income I need.
I choose to feel excited about the opportunity that this economy is creating.
This is a great time to work on my Side Hustle with my Young Living Business.

I am confident there are plenty of people who want to supplement their income.
Some of those would love to join me.
We can do this together.
I choose to feel comfortable and full of expectation in any economy.
No matter what is happening around me,
I choose to be calm and in peace.
I am strong.
I am confident.
I am peaceful.
I am attracting abundance, no matter what the economy is like.

Take a deep breath.

I added some words to this tapping session about Plan B, Side Hustle because it is these times when the economy is bad, people are looking for ways to earn extra income. Network Marketing and Direct Sales Businesses actually thrive in bad economy because of people working to build supplemental income.

If you are already working your Plan B, EFT and essential oils can be really helpful to shift to a more abundance attracting energy.

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Did you set a resolution for the new year? Are you still on track? Recently I heard a statistic that only 8% are still working on their resolutions after only 2 weeks. That is why I prefer to set goals rather than resolutions. Set a realistic goal and write it down.


Focus and Intent are really important in your successful business whether it is a network marketing business or any other kind of business. Think about what you want out of network marketing business. Why you are building this business?

  • Do you want to earn enough to cover the cost of your oils and supplements each month?
  • Do you want a little extra money each month?
  • Enough to make the mortgage payment each month?
  • Do you want a new washer & dryer?
  • Perhaps a new car?
  • Maybe you want to fund your children’s education.
  • Do you want to provide a full time income for your family?
  • Do you want to retire?

Knowing what you want from your business and WHY is a very important ingredient for success in your business. You need to know WHY you want success in this business and become laser focused on your goals. Not only that, goals become much more effective if you put them in writing.

Whatever your reason, write it down so you can see it, internalize it.

Put your short term and long term goals in writing. This is a very important step that very few people seem to realize the importance of. I like the monthly goals because the keep me focused on what I need to do to get to my long term goals.

Establish Your Dreams
Make a Plan and Work Your Plan Daily
What are you willing to do on a daily basis to achieve your dreams?

Put a couple drops of Magnify Your Purpose essential oil blend on your fingertips and begin tapping through the points. It really does not matter which points you tap. Just tap through the points focusing on the words and feelings.

Click to enlarge Tapping Points Image:

(Side of the Hand)
Even though I’m not exactly sure how I will get to my goal, I deeply and completely love and accept myself,
Even though I intend to reach my goal but not quite sure how, I deeply and completely love and forgive myself,
Even though I’m not sure how I will reach my goal, I absolutely intend to focus on reaching and even surpassing my goal.

Tap through points:
I’m not sure exactly how this will look.
It is my intent to build a successful business.
I know WHY I am doing this business.
I intend to build enough income to ___________.
I’m not exactly sure how all of this will work out.
I have set my goal.
I intend to make my plan and work it.
Make adjustments as I go and work my plan.
Every day I am focused on my goal and the steps I am working out to get there.
I spend a little time each day focusing on WHY I am building my business.
I am also helping other people build their own successful business.
That way we can all do this together.
I see us all successful together.
I intend to reach my own goals while helping my friends meet their goals.
We are doing this together.
We are building a life of freedom TOGETHER.
I am focusing on my intent every day.
I am focusing on my goals and the steps I need to get there.

I am releasing any blocks that are holding me back.
I am releasing the emotional attachment to sabotaging my success.
I am focusing on my goals.
I working out the steps to reach my goals and focusing my intent every day.

I know there are days I will be better at this than others.
Some days you just feel stronger than others and I chose to forgive myself for that,
And be OK with that.

Every day I will do SOMETHING big or small that will move me closer to my goal.
Some days I will do something big and some days it will be something small.
No matter what, I will do SOMETHING to move forward.
I focus on my intent every day.
I focus on WHY I am doing this.

I really can manifest what I want
I really do control my destiny.
I really do create my reality.

I want it so clear in my mind,
That I can reach out and touch it,
I can feel it,
I can possess it,
It’s just energy that I form,
I create it in my mind first, making my picture very clear.
Letting go of all the fear.
I focus on my intent every day.
Focusing on WHY I am doing this.
Focusing on WHY WE are doing this.
We are doing this together.

Joyfully and gratefully focusing on goals and the steps we need to get there.
Joyfully and gratefully focusing on goals and the steps I need to get there.

Take a Deep Breath

For more, read “How Strong is Your Why?