Do you ever find yourself holding back when opportunities arise to speak about your products or the business? Sometimes we get in our own way and make things feel larger than they need to be.
Think about all the times you shared your favorite recipe, a movie you really enjoyed or if something really helped you in some way. It’s easy to talk about. Your business and your product use should feel the same way.

When we are selling the product, it somehow feels different but if you just shift your mindset a bit, you can make it feel as natural and easy.

Don’t be afraid to say you sell the product. “Yes, I sell these products. They have helped my family so much I decided I needed to earn enough to cover my oil habit. It ended up growing into a full time career.” ๐Ÿ˜‰

Or, “I love these products so much and I can’t live without them so I decided to sell them and earn a little extra income. Who knows how far it can go. Hey! Why not join me and we can do this together. What fun we could have working together supporting our family’s physical and financial health!”

Don’t make it feel weird, just matter of fact. No worries if they do not want to join you. They may down the line. Keep reminding them by using the product front of them and even sharing something that will help them. Not salesy, just sharing.

It is really important that you really believe in your product and business. Find a product you LOVE! I know some people can sell anything but most of us are not that way but we DO love talking about things we love. For me, essential oils was easy because I LOVE things that smell good. Years ago, when I began my business, did NOT know that most of the scented perfumes and candles were full of toxic chemicals. Thankfully I have learned and replaced the toxic products with healthy ones, but for me, that’s not what makes me feel joy and want to talk about it. It’s the way I can lift the mood with just a drop of oil. It’s playing with making my own skin care products it’s so many fun things I can’t list them all. Find what brings you joy and talk it up. ๐Ÿ˜‰

If you have products that help people strengthen their health or immune system, replace toxic chemicals and have healthier options, there is a mission in that. People need to know there are better option.

Whatever you need to do, refocus on WHY youโ€™re doing this business and what you LOVE about the product.

It’s true, there are times when you need a little help. This is where I like to do a little tapping to get my mind focused on what I intend for growing the business.

Here is some tapping to help release the fear of speaking up:

If you are using essential oils with your tapping session, add the oils to your fingertips and tap through the points. It really does not matter which points you tap. Just tap through the points focusing on the words and feelings.
I love using Valor for courage to speak up. Other oil blends that are good with this EFT session on belief are Abundance, Acceptance, Gathering, Magnify Your Purpose, Motivation, Release.

Side of the Hand:
Even though I’m holding myself back from speaking up about my products (or the business),
I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though I’m holding back from taking action, I deeply and completely love and forgive myself.
Even though I’m holding back from sharing the awesome products and business I have, I deeply and completely love and forgive myself.

Starting at eyebrow point:
I keep stopping myself from talking about my products.
I keep holding back.
I LOVE my products but I keep holding back.
I know they will benefit from them like I have.
I have all these fears inside,
I fear they will reject me.
What if they hate network marketing?
What if they think I am stupid for being in a network marketing business?
I hate feeling like a sales person.
I have all these uncomfortable feelings.
Why do I feel that way?
I LOVE these products.
They have changed my life in so many ways.
I love how I feel.
I really want to share with my friends.
I have no problem talking about a movie I loved, or a recipe I love or even a product I love.
My earning a commission from products I share should not feel yucky!
I love these products so much I decided to earn a little extra money selling them.
It’s not weird at all.
Plus, It’s actually fun when we do this together.
It’s not weird to talk about the products I LOVE!
I have decided to stop making it feel uncomfortable.
I release the emotional attachment to holding back.
I release the emotional attachment to fear of rejection.
If I asked a friend out for coffee and they said they couldn’t do it right now, do I feel rejected?
NO!
It’s not rejection of me!
I release the emotional attachment to holding back sharing the good things I have.
I release the emotional attachment to holding back sharing the products I LOVE!

I am open to talking about a product that I actually sell.
I love it so much I wanted to sell it!
There is nothing weird about that.
Letting go of any old ideas that holds me back from speaking about a product I love.
Releasing any ideas that told me it wasn’t okay to talk about a product I love,
just because I happen to sell it.
I had a fear they would think I was only trying to sell to them so I didn’t speak up,
but I am THANKFUL someone shared with me.
It has changed my life!
I’m letting that old way of thinking go now.
I’m releasing that way of thinking go now.
I’m releasing the emotional attachment to that way of thinking go now.
I now know it’s okay to talk about a product I sell.
I’ll just say, “I loved these products so much I decided to sell them and earn a little extra income to pay for my oily habit.”
Nothing uncomfortable or weird about that at all.
I’m releasing any fear of sharing what I LOVE!

I delight in sharing what I LOVE.
I love talking about it.
I love rolling oils on people
I love taking action.
I love helping my friends.
I love sharing.
I radiate confidence.
I am full of passion.
I love how confident I am feeling.


Take a deep breath.


Click to enlarge Tapping Points Image:

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EFT Tapping for Network Marketing Goals


Did you set a resolution for the new year? Are you still on track? Recently I heard a statistic that only 8% are still working on their resolutions after only 2 weeks. That is why I prefer to set goals rather than resolutions. Set a realistic goal and write it down.


Focus and Intent are really important in your successful business whether it is a network marketing business or any other kind of business. Think about what you want out of network marketing business. Why you are building this business?

  • Do you want to earn enough to cover the cost of your oils and supplements each month?
  • Do you want a little extra money each month?
  • Enough to make the mortgage payment each month?
  • Do you want a new washer & dryer?
  • Perhaps a new car?
  • Maybe you want to fund your children’s education.
  • Do you want to provide a full time income for your family?
  • Do you want to retire?

Knowing what you want from your business and WHY is a very important ingredient for success in your business. You need to know WHY you want success in this business and become laser focused on your goals. Not only that, goals become much more effective if you put them in writing.

Whatever your reason, write it down so you can see it, internalize it.

Put your short term and long term goals in writing. This is a very important step that very few people seem to realize the importance of. I like the monthly goals because the keep me focused on what I need to do to get to my long term goals.

Establish Your Dreams
Make a Plan and Work Your Plan Daily
What are you willing to do on a daily basis to achieve your dreams?

Put a couple drops of Magnify Your Purpose essential oil blend on your fingertips and begin tapping through the points. It really does not matter which points you tap. Just tap through the points focusing on the words and feelings.

Click to enlarge Tapping Points Image:

(Side of the Hand)
Even though I’m not exactly sure how I will get to my goal, I deeply and completely love and accept myself,
Even though I intend to reach my goal but not quite sure how, I deeply and completely love and forgive myself,
Even though I’m not sure how I will reach my goal, I absolutely intend to focus on reaching and even surpassing my goal.

Tap through points:
I’m not sure exactly how this will look.
It is my intent to build a successful business.
I know WHY I am doing this business.
I intend to build enough income to ___________.
I’m not exactly sure how all of this will work out.
I have set my goal.
I intend to make my plan and work it.
Make adjustments as I go and work my plan.
Every day I am focused on my goal and the steps I am working out to get there.
I spend a little time each day focusing on WHY I am building my business.
I am also helping other people build their own successful business.
That way we can all do this together.
I see us all successful together.
I intend to reach my own goals while helping my friends meet their goals.
We are doing this together.
We are building a life of freedom TOGETHER.
I am focusing on my intent every day.
I am focusing on my goals and the steps I need to get there.

I am releasing any blocks that are holding me back.
I am releasing the emotional attachment to sabotaging my success.
I am focusing on my goals.
I working out the steps to reach my goals and focusing my intent every day.

I know there are days I will be better at this than others.
Some days you just feel stronger than others and I chose to forgive myself for that,
And be OK with that.

Every day I will do SOMETHING big or small that will move me closer to my goal.
Some days I will do something big and some days it will be something small.
No matter what, I will do SOMETHING to move forward.
I focus on my intent every day.
I focus on WHY I am doing this.

I really can manifest what I want
I really do control my destiny.
I really do create my reality.

I want it so clear in my mind,
That I can reach out and touch it,
I can feel it,
I can possess it,
It’s just energy that I form,
I create it in my mind first, making my picture very clear.
Letting go of all the fear.
I focus on my intent every day.
Focusing on WHY I am doing this.
Focusing on WHY WE are doing this.
We are doing this together.

Joyfully and gratefully focusing on goals and the steps we need to get there.
Joyfully and gratefully focusing on goals and the steps I need to get there.

Take a Deep Breath

For more, read “How Strong is Your Why?


There is a book I love and I encourage everyone who is serious about the success of their network marketing business to read. Actually, there are several I recommend but the book I am talking about is, What to Say When You Talk to Your Self, by Shad Helmstetter


EFT For Network MarketersYour self talk has a powerful impact on your success in any endeavor but particularly when building your network marketing business. The words you are using all day long can either lift you or tear you down. Your self talk can either lift your mood or ruin it. Attract abundance or repel it.


It is important to release the negative emotions and keep the energy in a positive state. Your emotions affect your energy. Your ABUNDANCE attracting energy! They affect the way you do things in your business. The negative emotion affect the way you step up and talk to people. This is important because network marketing is a business where you talk to people.


Emotional Freedom Technique, sometimes called Tapping, is an awesome way to shift a negative energy and move into a more positive abundant energy. Affirmations can be helpful in redirecting our thinking and self talk. If you are having a bad day and you are feeling really negative, repeating affirmations over and over in your head can really help shift your mood.

That’s why, when someone asks me how I am, I like to say, “I am AWESOME!!!” or something similar. Never respond with something negative. Even if I have had a horrible day, I like to try to shift my mood with something that can be like an affirmation. I used to know someone who would respond, “I’m doing great and I know it just keeps getting better!” I love that one and occasionally will use it as my response. Now, be reasonable here. There are times you are not going to do that. If someone just died or some other really sad thing happened it would not be appropriate.

I like to enhance affirmations by tapping on the EFT points as I focus on the affirmations. You can use Emotional Freedom Technique to shift your energy to a more positive vibration. Add some essential oils and really power up your Affirmation Tapping. I like Abundance oil for business related Affirmation Tapping.


Make sure your affirmations are positive, NOT negative. For example: Rather than saying, “I am not attracting rude, grouchy distributors”, say, “I am attracting strong, confident, successful business builders who love the product.” Say whatever feels uplifting and empowering to your abundance.
Use the words, “I am” instead of “I will.” Saying, “I will” puts your goal off into the future. Instead of saying, “I will become Royal Crown Diamond” say, “I am building a Royal Crown Diamond team of distributors.”
Or, you could say, “I am Royal Crown Diamond.” If you have a little voice in your head disagreeing and saying, Ah, No you’re NOT!” Then word it like this, “I am attracting a Royal Crown Diamond team of distributors.”

A few ideas for Abundance Tapping:

    I am attracting a Royal Crown Diamond team of distributors.
    I LOVE that I am attracting strong, confident, successful business builders.
    I am GRATEFUL that abundance flows to me through my network marketing business.
    I am a very successful, magnetic leader.
    Every CELL in my body is full of ABUNDANCE.
    I radiate ABUNDANCE & I am like a MAGNET attracting MORE ABUNDANCE.
    I am a confident and successful leader.
    I am comfortable in front of people.

Add Abundance oil or another essential oil to your fingertips before you begin tapping through the EFT Points.

The EFT PointsEFT For Network Marketers - Tapping Points


KC = Karate Chop
EB = Beginning of the Eye Brow
SE = Side of the Eye
UE = Under the Eye
UN = Under the Nose
Ch = Chin
CB = Beginning of the Collar Bone
UA = Under the Arm
WR = Inside of Wrists
TH = Top of Head


You can also tap the fingertip points. I sometimes tap these points discreetly when I am in public. Each finger can be tapped at the base of the nail.


Think of a positive affirmation that will help shift your energy to a more confident one. Tap each point repeating the affirmation as you tap each point. You can say multiple affirmations as you are tapping if you choose. While you are doing this, try to keep a smile on your face. There is something about smiling that super charges this process.


Always be aware of the words you use and how they impact your emotional and abundance energy.


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