There is a book I love and I encourage everyone who is serious about the success of their network marketing business to read. Actually, there are several I recommend but the book I am talking about is, What to Say When You Talk to Your Self, by Shad Helmstetter


EFT For Network MarketersYour self talk has a powerful impact on your success in any endeavor but particularly when building your network marketing business. The words you are using all day long can either lift you or tear you down. Your self talk can either lift your mood or ruin it. Attract abundance or repel it.


It is important to release the negative emotions and keep the energy in a positive state. Your emotions affect your energy. Your ABUNDANCE attracting energy! They affect the way you do things in your business. The negative emotion affect the way you step up and talk to people. This is important because network marketing is a business where you talk to people.


Affirmations can be helpful in redirecting our thinking and self talk into a more positive abundance attracting energy. If you are having a bad day and you are feeling really negative, repeating affirmations can really shift your mood.

Add some power to your affirmations by tapping on the EFT points as you focus on the words. EFT is a wonderful tool to make your affirmations more effective and shift your energy to a more abundance attracting energy vibration. Add some essential oils and really power up your Affirmation Tapping even more. I like Abundance oil for business related Affirmation Tapping.


Make sure your affirmations are positive, NOT negative. For example: Rather than saying, “I am not attracting rude, grouchy distributors”, say, “I am attracting strong, confident, successful business builders who love the product.” Say whatever feels uplifting and empowering to your abundance.
Use the words, “I am” instead of “I will.” Saying, “I will” puts your goal off into the future. Instead of saying, “I will become Royal Crown Diamond” say, “I am building a Royal Crown Diamond team of distributors.”
Or, you could say, “I am Royal Crown Diamond.” If you have a little voice in your head disagreeing and saying, Ah, No you’re NOT!” Then word it like this, “I am attracting a Royal Crown Diamond team of distributors.”

A few ideas for Abundance Tapping:

    I am confident and I am loved
    I am confident and I am loving
    I am confident and I love it

    I am attracting a Royal Crown Diamond team.
    I LOVE that I am attracting strong, confident, successful business builders.
    I am GRATEFUL that abundance flows to me through my network marketing business.
    I am a very successful, magnetic leader.
    I am worthy of receiving ABUNDANCE.
    I am allowing great ABUNDANCE.
    Every CELL in my body is attracting ABUNDANCE.
    I am like a MAGNET attracting ABUNDANCE and I am radiating ABUNDANCE.
    I am a confident and successful leader.
    I am comfortable talking to people about Network Marketing.
    I am confident and successfully building my business.

Add Abundance oil or another essential oil to your fingertips before you begin tapping through the EFT Points.

The EFT PointsEFT For Network Marketers - Tapping Points


KC = Karate Chop
EB = Beginning of the Eye Brow
SE = Side of the Eye
UE = Under the Eye
UN = Under the Nose
Ch = Chin
CB = Beginning of the Collar Bone
UA = Under the Arm
WR = Inside of Wrists
TH = Top of Head


You can also tap the fingertip points. I sometimes tap these points discreetly when I am in public. Each finger can be tapped at the base of the nail.


Think of a positive affirmation that will help shift your energy to a more confident one. Tap each point repeating the affirmation as you tap each point. You can say multiple affirmations as you are tapping if you choose. While you are doing this, try to keep a smile on your face. There is something about smiling that super charges this process.


Always be aware of the words you use and how they impact your emotional and abundance energy.


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EFT Affirmation Tapping Attract Business Builders



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Let’s talk about abundance and resistance. As we build our network marketing business, we need to be constantly aware of our energy. If you are like me, you want a business that you can work from home or anywhere you happen to be. You are building a residual income that will create a lifestyle of freedom.

If you are setting your monthly and long term goals and not attracting the abundance you want through your business, it is usually because there is too much “resistance” in your energy systems. This is why it is important to be aware of the resistance and release it so you can attract the abundance you want.

Resistance is any emotion, behavior or vibration that isn’t in alignment with what you want. Negative thoughts become negative emotions and vibrations that become resistance. Any negative emotion can become resistance. The negative emotions may not directly be about your business but they DO affect your ability to attract abundance.

Negative vibrations are sent when you are talking or thinking about about what you DON’T want or when you worry or complain, feel discouraged or fearful, etc. This is true when you are having negative feelings around the business but also when you are feeling negative about your current circumstances. If you hate your job and you really want to change things. If you are struggling financially and you really to build residual income to change your financial situation. This is a big one. This is what I was experiencing when I started building my network marketing business. I was tired of having to work crappy jobs and struggling to make ends meet. There was a LOT of stress over money. All of that stress made it really challenging to build my business.

Back then I did not know about the Law of Attraction. I did not know that every time I focused on the things I did NOT want, I was actually sending out negative vibrations attracting more of the same crap. That is really hard when there is not enough money to cover all the bills, or you need a new roof or whatever job needs to be done and you feel stressed out because you have no idea how you are going to get it all done. It’s the feelings of stress, frustration, discouragement, etc. that become resistance.

Every morning, stop and notice how you are feeling emotionally. Negative emotions cause resistance and blocks to abundance.

Some examples of emotions that cause resistance are: frustration, pessimism, resentment, anger, fear, anxiety, impatience and general stress. Resistant vibrations include: scarcity, worthiness issues, lack etc. In short, anything that puts you in a bad mood could be called resistance.

You will have negative emotions. We ALL have that. Stressful things happen. The key is not staying there too long. You MUST refocus and get in a better more abundance attracting vibration. Do something to get in a better emotional state. One of the most powerful abundance attracting emotions is gratitude.

EFT is a powerful way to release the resistance and allow abundance.

EFT Tapping to Release Resistance

Essential oils that could be used with this tapping: Abundance, Acceptance, Magnify Your Purpose, Motivation, Release, Field, Valor.
Add a drop or two of essential oil to fingertips before tapping through the points.

While tapping the karate chop point on either hand, repeat these phrases, (or change the words to fit your exact situation).

Tapping on the Karate Chop point:
Even though I have all this resistance, I deeply and completely accept myself
Even though I have all this resistance, I deeply and completely accept myself
Even though I have all this resistance, I deeply and completely accept myself

Start tapping through the points:

I can feel the resistance.
There is so much stress.
Working
Paying bills
Working
Paying bills
Working
Paying bills (Use whatever words describe things you are stressing about)
With all that working,
It seems like we should have enough.
But there’s never enough.
This isn’t any fun.
All this working.
Never having time to do the things I want to do.
Never having the money to do what I want.
I am feeling the stress.
I feel scarcity and lack.
I feel the resistance.
It’s causing me to resist the thing that I really want.
I really want to change things.
I am building this business to change things.
But I can feel the resistance.
I set goals and I work hard,
but I have not been able to reach them.
I had the goal to enroll 5 new members this month,
but I didn’t reach my goal.
I do all kinds of prospecting but I can’t seem to get anywhere.
I can feel the resistance.
I need to clear that.
It’s time to let go of the resistance.
I’m letting it go.
I release all struggle and resistance.
Releasing all the resistance.
Releasing resistance to success in my business.
Releasing resistance in all areas of my life.
I release all feelings of scarcity.
Releasing the fear that there is never enough.
Releasing it from every cell in my body.
Releasing the stress of having to work all the time.
Releasing all the feelings of stress.
Releasing all the feelings of overwhelm.
Releasing all the feelings of fear.
Releasing the feelings of struggle around reaching my goals.
I am open and allowing my business to grow every month.
I am grateful I have this amazing opportunity to build a lifestyle of freedom.
I love our amazing products
and I love sharing the products that have changed my life.
I allow success in my life and my business.
I am open and allowing abundance to flow through my business and my life.
I’m ready and willing to receive abundance.
I am grateful for the abundance I already have.
I am allowing more abundance every day.
I am an abundance magnet!

Take a deep breath. It is always a good idea to drink some water when doing EFT.

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There is one question I get asked a lot. New distributors ask it but even distributors who have been working a at their business for quite some time often ask, “What is the secret to success?”

That’s a good question. There are a lot of things involved in a successful network marketing business but the most important is summed up in 2 words.

“Get started.”

You may think that is overly simple but the sad fact is, most people never really get started building a successful network marketing business. They buy a starter kit but never do much else.

You want FREEDOM from the passion killing corporate grind, grow an income that will be there for supplemental or full time income for retirement years. That will not happen if you don’t get started BUILDING your business which involves marketing and promoting.

You have to figure out which ways to market and promote your business. Once you figure out those things, you need to use trial and error to test out what works for you. You may even find that you need to totally change directions. The thing is, you can’t change directions until you get moving. Think of driving a car. The car has to be moving before you can turn in any direction, whether a slight turn or a full turn.

One of my mentors used to say,
You don’t have to get it right, you just have to get it GOING!

The way to get anywhere is to start from where you are right now and learn as you go. Prospecting and marketing = sales volume growth = income growth. Getting started involves getting your marketing materials together and getting to it. As you learn and practice, you get better and better, more and more comfortable.

Here’s and EFT Script to help you get motivated:

Apply 1 – 3 drops of Release oil on your fingertips, then tap on the Karate Chop Point with the oiled up fingertips. As you are tapping the EFT Points, you will have enough remaining oil to carry to all the other points.

While tapping the Karate Chop Point:
Even though I don’t know what to do , I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though I’m stuck and don’t feel like doing anything, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though I am feeling stuck and unmotivated, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.

You can add something specific you need to do if you want. Don’t worry. It doesn’t matter what words you say on which points.

Round One: Focusing on the Negative Feelings

(eyebrow) I am feeling stuck and unmotivated.
(side of eye) I don’t know what to do.
(under eye) I just can’t seem to get started.
(nose) I know getting started is the key to success.
(chin) I know getting started with DAILY PROSPECTING is top priority.
(collarbone) I feel a little stressed out about that.
(under arm) I feel resistance to getting started.
(head) I can’t seem to get started.

(eyebrow) I don’t want to get it going.
(side of eye) Yes I DO want to get it going.
(under eye) I’m feeling a little stressed out about prospecting.
(nose) What if I just start moving?
(chin) I know just making a few steps forward will start some momentum.
(collarbone) I am releasing the fear of getting started.
(under arm) Releasing and letting go of the fear.
(head) Releasing it from every cell in my body.

Round Two: Implant Positive

(eyebrow) I choose to feel motivated to get started.
(side of eye) I choose to take steps forward and get momentum moving forward.
(under eye) I step into energy and motivation.
(nose) I choose to move forward one step at a time.
(chin) I feel good moving forward.
(collarbone) I choose to move get started in a way that feels even more motivating.
(under arm) I enjoy taking action.
(head) I choose to feel energized and motivated as I get started NOW.

Take a deep breath.

If you feel you need more work on this, run through the tapping a few more times. You may need to revisit this issue from time to time. We all have days when we need a reboot. 😉

Try EFT with Motivation oil when you need a little help getting motivated.