There is a book I love and I encourage everyone who is serious about the success of their network marketing business to read. Actually, there are several I recommend but the book I am talking about is, What to Say When You Talk to Your Self, by Shad Helmstetter


EFT For Network MarketersYour self talk has a powerful impact on your success in any endeavor but particularly when building your network marketing business. The words you are using all day long can either lift you or tear you down. Your self talk can either lift your mood or ruin it. Attract abundance or repel it.


It is important to release the negative emotions and keep the energy in a positive state. Your emotions affect your energy. Your ABUNDANCE attracting energy! They affect the way you do things in your business. The negative emotion affect the way you step up and talk to people. This is important because network marketing is a business where you talk to people.


Emotional Freedom Technique, sometimes called Tapping, is an awesome way to shift a negative energy and move into a more positive abundant energy. Affirmations can be helpful in redirecting our thinking and self talk. If you are having a bad day and you are feeling really negative, repeating affirmations over and over in your head can really help shift your mood.

That’s why, when someone asks me how I am, I like to say, “I am AWESOME!!!” or something similar. Never respond with something negative. Even if I have had a horrible day, I like to try to shift my mood with something that can be like an affirmation. I used to know someone who would respond, “I’m doing great and I know it just keeps getting better!” I love that one and occasionally will use it as my response. Now, be reasonable here. There are times you are not going to do that. If someone just died or some other really sad thing happened it would not be appropriate.

I like to enhance affirmations by tapping on the EFT points as I focus on the affirmations. You can use Emotional Freedom Technique to shift your energy to a more positive vibration. Add some essential oils and really power up your Affirmation Tapping. I like Abundance oil for business related Affirmation Tapping.


Make sure your affirmations are positive, NOT negative. For example: Rather than saying, “I am not attracting rude, grouchy distributors”, say, “I am attracting strong, confident, successful business builders who love the product.” Say whatever feels uplifting and empowering to your abundance.
Use the words, “I am” instead of “I will.” Saying, “I will” puts your goal off into the future. Instead of saying, “I will become Royal Crown Diamond” say, “I am building a Royal Crown Diamond team of distributors.”
Or, you could say, “I am Royal Crown Diamond.” If you have a little voice in your head disagreeing and saying, Ah, No you’re NOT!” Then word it like this, “I am attracting a Royal Crown Diamond team of distributors.”

A few ideas for Abundance Tapping:

    I am attracting a Royal Crown Diamond team of distributors.
    I LOVE that I am attracting strong, confident, successful business builders.
    I am GRATEFUL that abundance flows to me through my network marketing business.
    I am a very successful, magnetic leader.
    Every CELL in my body is full of ABUNDANCE.
    I radiate ABUNDANCE & I am like a MAGNET attracting MORE ABUNDANCE.
    I am a confident and successful leader.
    I am comfortable in front of people.

Add Abundance oil or another essential oil to your fingertips before you begin tapping through the EFT Points.

The EFT PointsEFT For Network Marketers - Tapping Points


KC = Karate Chop
EB = Beginning of the Eye Brow
SE = Side of the Eye
UE = Under the Eye
UN = Under the Nose
Ch = Chin
CB = Beginning of the Collar Bone
UA = Under the Arm
WR = Inside of Wrists
TH = Top of Head


You can also tap the fingertip points. I sometimes tap these points discreetly when I am in public. Each finger can be tapped at the base of the nail.


Think of a positive affirmation that will help shift your energy to a more confident one. Tap each point repeating the affirmation as you tap each point. You can say multiple affirmations as you are tapping if you choose. While you are doing this, try to keep a smile on your face. There is something about smiling that super charges this process.


Always be aware of the words you use and how they impact your emotional and abundance energy.


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I learned “WHAT IF” tapping from Carol Look, one of my favorite EFT mentors.  Adding the question, WHAT IF?  to your tapping allows you to imagine the possibilities, looking beyond what you see in your life right now. It is our limiting beliefs that can get in the way of the success we would like to see. It is important to believe you can achieve your goals.
What If Royal Crown Diamond
If you have the belief that getting to the rank of Diamond in your network marketing business, will happen for other people but not for you, this limiting belief can get in the way and become a block to your success in the business.

Use the What If tapping to look beyond your limiting belief to visualize the possibilities and What if YOU can TOO? When you feel any limiting beliefs coming up, focus on those and keep tapping through the points and releasing the limiting beliefs.

For this tapping, I like to use essential oil blends that help you relax and think about the future. A few Young Living Oil Blend possibilities are: Envision, Believe, Build Your Dream, Magnify Your Purpose, Transformation, Into The Future, Valor.

There are lots of possibilities for oils to use. Go with whatever feels right to you. The added essential oil is not necessary but the oil helps infuse extra energy into your tapping session.

If you are using essential oil in your tapping session, just add a couple drops to your fingertips before you begin tapping and start tapping through the points:

Starting on the Karate Chop point:

Even though I don’t believe I deserve an abundantly producing business, WHAT IF I have been wrong about this?
Even though building to the rank of Diamond works for other people but not me , WHAT IF I could build to diamond, even Royal Crown Diamond?
Even though I’m convinced i could never build a really abundant network marketing business to Diamond, WHAT IF it IS possible for me and I am about to build all the way to Royal Crown Diamond?

Now tap through the rest of the points: (It doesn’t really matter which points, just tap through.)

What If I really could build this business really big?
What if I have learned someone else’s wrong limiting belief about success being for other people but not me?
What if the limiting beliefs I have learned are NOT TRUE?
What if I am in control of all of these limiting beliefs?
What if I am a really powerful business builder?
What if I really am a Royal Crown Diamond in the making?
What if all I have to do is believe it’s possible?
What if I can release these limiting beliefs and blocks to my building an abundantly successful network marketing business?
What if I can actually build my business to the rank of Royal Crown Diamond?
What if I am just as deserving and able as anyone else who has built a successful network marketing business?
What if I do have what it takes to build this business as big as I want it, all the way to the top rank?
What if I really CAN do this?
What if I DO deserve an abundantly successful Royal Crown Diamond sized business just as much as they do?
What if I am releasing these blocks and limiting beliefs right now?
What if I am advancing to Royal Crown Diamond each and every month?
What if I really could believe it?
Why NOT?
I’m not so different as they are!
I’m sure some of them had limiting beliefs too.
They just kept moving forward toward the goal!
One day at a time.
One Income Producing DAY at a time!
I can do that too!!!
I KNOW I can!
I have oils and EFT to help me.
I’m tapping away any limiting beliefs!
I am releasing the emotional attachment to the belief that I can’t build this business all the way to Royal Crown Diamond!
I really CAN do this!
I am attracting strong, confident, successful business builders and we are building to Royal Crown Diamond TOGETHER!

Take a deep breath!

I recommend doing this tapping session daily. I will be doing it with you! Together we can do this!! 😉

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EFT What If Tapping


Do you ever find yourself putting things off that you know will help your business grow faster? Sometimes getting sidetracked and going down a rabbit hole of time wasting activity. Even personal development and product training can become time wasting activity if we are not taking action on what we are learning. If you don’t take action, you have NO network marketing business. Action is what will grow your income.

We all we get distracted with time wasting activities from time to time but what if it has become a pattern? What if you find yourself organizing the office or files on the computer. Or, one I have had trouble with at times is making graphics and marketing materials for my team. Those are all good things to do but NOT if it causes you to neglect Income Producing ACTION.

Time wasting activities are a way of procrastinating. Procrastination is always caused by a subconscious fear that is causing resistance to taking action. You can clear some of these fears with EFT. EFT can also help you get moving in action.

Have a little talk with yourself and commit to just one ACTION. I like to do this on days when I find myself struggling with distractions and not feeling like doing Income Producing Activities. It has to be an income producing action (IPA). Organizing your desk doesn’t count as action. 😉

Income producing action would be some contact with another person where there is potential for a business connection, a follow up call, email or text, ask a question and share an oil or a flyer, connect with an old friend, share a drop of essential oil with someone who needs it, etc. There are lots of actions you could take.

Before you do that, why not do some tapping. Here is a tapping script for Taking One Action.

Essential oils that could be used with this tapping: Release, Valor, Abundance, Acceptance, Magnify Your Purpose, Motivation, Field.

Add a drop or two of essential oil to fingertips before tapping through the points.

While tapping the karate chop point on either hand, repeat these phrases, (or change the words to fit your exact situation).

Even though I’ve been holding myself back from action, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though I’ve been holding myself back from action, I deeply and completely love and forgive myself.
Even though I’ve been holding myself back from action, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.

I’ve been holding back.
Blocking myself with inaction.
It’s really bothering me.
There’s things I could be doing.
There are definitely some things that I could be getting done.
Actions I could be taking.
I intend to build a successful business that will change my life.
I know I need to take action if I want my business to succeed.
Income producing action.
Talking to people.
Using products in front of people to stir interest and conversation.
Approaching people and talking about my products.
Something is holding me back.
I find myself holding back.
I need to follow up.
Make a phone call to that new member.
but I keep putting it off.
Why am I holding back?
What am I afraid of?
There is a fear deep down inside.
It’s a little out of my comfort zone.
Do I have a fear of abundance?
It must be in there, so I don’t take action,
because if I took certain actions,
it might lead to abundance.
Then what?
How do I handle all that abundance?
I’m afraid, so I hold back.
I’m letting that way of thinking go now.
I’m letting that way of thinking go now.
I want this business to change my life.
I intend to make progress.
So what if some are not interested?
So what if I make some mistakes?
I will take One Action Today.
One Income Producing Action.
I know I will feel stronger with each action I take.
More confident with each action I take.
One action will lead to another, then another.
I get better with each action.
Most of the learning is accomplished through action.
I’m moving forward with each action I take.
Making progress every day.
Facing my fears with each action and
feeling more and more confident about making progress.
I’m showing up to work.
I am releasing my fears and taking action. One action at a time.
I am looking forward to Taking One Action Step.
I know it’s okay to have abundance.
I delight in having abundance.
I love having abundance.
I love taking action.
I love taking action.
I love being of service.
I am Joyfully allowing abundance.
Gratefully allowing abundance.
Knowing that I deserve it.
I am joyfully and gratefully taking inspired action.

Take a deep breath.

Essential oils that could be used with this tapping: Release, Valor, Abundance, Acceptance, Magnify Your Purpose, Motivation, Field.

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