EFT | - Part 2

Tapping for Holding Back From Speaking Up

Do you ever find yourself holding back when opportunities arise to speak about your products or the business? Sometimes we get in our own way and make things feel larger than they need to be.
Think about all the times you shared your favorite recipe, a movie you really enjoyed or if something really helped you in some way. It’s easy to talk about. Your business and your product use should feel the same way.

When we are selling the product, it somehow feels different but if you just shift your mindset a bit, you can make it feel as natural and easy.

Don’t be afraid to say you sell the product. “Yes, I sell these products. They have helped my family so much I decided I needed to earn enough to cover my oil habit. It ended up growing into a full time career.” 😉

Or, “I love these products so much and I can’t live without them so I decided to sell them and earn a little extra income. Who knows how far it can go. Hey! Why not join me and we can do this together. What fun we could have working together supporting our family’s physical and financial health!”

Don’t make it feel weird, just matter of fact. No worries if they do not want to join you. They may down the line. Keep reminding them by using the product front of them and even sharing something that will help them. Not salesy, just sharing.

It is really important that you really believe in your product and business. Find a product you LOVE! I know some people can sell anything but most of us are not that way but we DO love talking about things we love. For me, essential oils was easy because I LOVE things that smell good. Years ago, when I began my business, did NOT know that most of the scented perfumes and candles were full of toxic chemicals. Thankfully I have learned and replaced the toxic products with healthy ones, but for me, that’s not what makes me feel joy and want to talk about it. It’s the way I can lift the mood with just a drop of oil. It’s playing with making my own skin care products it’s so many fun things I can’t list them all. Find what brings you joy and talk it up. 😉

If you have products that help people strengthen their health or immune system, replace toxic chemicals and have healthier options, there is a mission in that. People need to know there are better option.

Whatever you need to do, refocus on WHY you’re doing this business and what you LOVE about the product.

It’s true, there are times when you need a little help. This is where I like to do a little tapping to get my mind focused on what I intend for growing the business.

Here is some tapping to help release the fear of speaking up:

If you are using essential oils with your tapping session, add the oils to your fingertips and tap through the points. It really does not matter which points you tap. Just tap through the points focusing on the words and feelings.
I love using Valor for courage to speak up. Other oil blends that are good with this EFT session on belief are Abundance, Acceptance, Gathering, Magnify Your Purpose, Motivation, Release.

Side of the Hand:
Even though I’m holding myself back from speaking up about my products (or the business),
I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though I’m holding back from taking action, I deeply and completely love and forgive myself.
Even though I’m holding back from sharing the awesome products and business I have, I deeply and completely love and forgive myself.

Starting at eyebrow point:
I keep stopping myself from talking about my products.
I keep holding back.
I LOVE my products but I keep holding back.
I know they will benefit from them like I have.
I have all these fears inside,
I fear they will reject me.
What if they hate network marketing?
What if they think I am stupid for being in a network marketing business?
I hate feeling like a sales person.
I have all these uncomfortable feelings.
Why do I feel that way?
I LOVE these products.
They have changed my life in so many ways.
I love how I feel.
I really want to share with my friends.
I have no problem talking about a movie I loved, or a recipe I love or even a product I love.
My earning a commission from products I share should not feel yucky!
I love these products so much I decided to earn a little extra money selling them.
It’s not weird at all.
Plus, It’s actually fun when we do this together.
It’s not weird to talk about the products I LOVE!
I have decided to stop making it feel uncomfortable.
I release the emotional attachment to holding back.
I release the emotional attachment to fear of rejection.
If I asked a friend out for coffee and they said they couldn’t do it right now, do I feel rejected?
NO!
It’s not rejection of me!
I release the emotional attachment to holding back sharing the good things I have.
I release the emotional attachment to holding back sharing the products I LOVE!

I am open to talking about a product that I actually sell.
I love it so much I wanted to sell it!
There is nothing weird about that.
Letting go of any old ideas that holds me back from speaking about a product I love.
Releasing any ideas that told me it wasn’t okay to talk about a product I love,
just because I happen to sell it.
I had a fear they would think I was only trying to sell to them so I didn’t speak up,
but I am THANKFUL someone shared with me.
It has changed my life!
I’m letting that old way of thinking go now.
I’m releasing that way of thinking go now.
I’m releasing the emotional attachment to that way of thinking go now.
I now know it’s okay to talk about a product I sell.
I’ll just say, “I loved these products so much I decided to sell them and earn a little extra income to pay for my oily habit.”
Nothing uncomfortable or weird about that at all.
I’m releasing any fear of sharing what I LOVE!

I delight in sharing what I LOVE.
I love talking about it.
I love rolling oils on people
I love taking action.
I love helping my friends.
I love sharing.
I radiate confidence.
I am full of passion.
I love how confident I am feeling.

Take a deep breath.

Click to enlarge Tapping Points Image:

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Tapping For Focused Intent on Achieving Goals

EFT Tapping for Network Marketing Goals

Did you set a resolution for the new year? Are you still on track? Recently I heard a statistic that only 8% are still working on their resolutions after only 2 weeks. That is why I prefer to set goals rather than resolutions. Set a realistic goal and write it down.

Focus and Intent are really important in your successful business whether it is a network marketing business or any other kind of business. Think about what you want out of network marketing business. Why you are building this business?

Do you want to earn enough to cover the cost of your oils and supplements each month?
Do you want a little extra money each month?
Enough to make the mortgage payment each month?
Do you want a new washer & dryer?
Perhaps a new car?
Maybe you want to fund your children’s education.
Do you want to provide a full time income for your family?
Do you want to retire?

Knowing what you want from your business and WHY is a very important ingredient for success in your business. You need to know WHY you want success in this business and become laser focused on your goals. Not only that, goals become much more effective if you put them in writing.

Whatever your reason, write it down so you can see it, internalize it.

Put your short term and long term goals in writing. This is a very important step that very few people seem to realize the importance of. I like the monthly goals because the keep me focused on what I need to do to get to my long term goals.

Establish Your Dreams
Make a Plan and Work Your Plan Daily
What are you willing to do on a daily basis to achieve your dreams?

Put a couple drops of Magnify Your Purpose essential oil blend on your fingertips and begin tapping through the points. It really does not matter which points you tap. Just tap through the points focusing on the words and feelings.

Click to enlarge Tapping Points Image:

(Side of the Hand)
Even though I’m not exactly sure how I will get to my goal, I deeply and completely love and accept myself,
Even though I intend to reach my goal but not quite sure how, I deeply and completely love and forgive myself,
Even though I’m not sure how I will reach my goal, I absolutely intend to focus on reaching and even surpassing my goal.

Tap through points:
I’m not sure exactly how this will look.
It is my intent to build a successful business.
I know WHY I am doing this business.
I intend to build enough income to ___________.
I’m not exactly sure how all of this will work out.
I have set my goal.
I intend to make my plan and work it.
Make adjustments as I go and work my plan.
Every day I am focused on my goal and the steps I am working out to get there.
I spend a little time each day focusing on WHY I am building my business.
I am also helping other people build their own successful business.
That way we can all do this together.
I see us all successful together.
I intend to reach my own goals while helping my friends meet their goals.
We are doing this together.
We are building a life of freedom TOGETHER.
I am focusing on my intent every day.
I am focusing on my goals and the steps I need to get there.

I am releasing any blocks that are holding me back.
I am releasing the emotional attachment to sabotaging my success.
I am focusing on my goals.
I working out the steps to reach my goals and focusing my intent every day.

I know there are days I will be better at this than others.
Some days you just feel stronger than others and I chose to forgive myself for that,
And be OK with that.

Every day I will do SOMETHING big or small that will move me closer to my goal.
Some days I will do something big and some days it will be something small.
No matter what, I will do SOMETHING to move forward.
I focus on my intent every day.
I focus on WHY I am doing this.

I really can manifest what I want
I really do control my destiny.
I really do create my reality.

I want it so clear in my mind,
That I can reach out and touch it,
I can feel it,
I can possess it,
It’s just energy that I form,
I create it in my mind first, making my picture very clear.
Letting go of all the fear.
I focus on my intent every day.
Focusing on WHY I am doing this.
Focusing on WHY WE are doing this.
We are doing this together.

Joyfully and gratefully focusing on goals and the steps we need to get there.
Joyfully and gratefully focusing on goals and the steps I need to get there.

Take a Deep Breath

For more, read “How Strong is Your Why?”

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EFT To Release Feeling Like Needs Are Not Met

Do you remember when you were a kid and you wanted something like a game, a toy or some current clothing style of the day? When you were a kid, you wanted things.

Kids just want everything . . .

“Mom, I want this toy!” “Mom, I want these shoes” “Mom, I want …”

Parents have a lot on their shoulders. They have all the household expenses, earning a living and taking care of their family and all that is involved with that. If there are are multiple children this can be very challenging. Kids are always needing things. Kids want things all the time. Every new toy that comes out. It’s not possible to get everything you want. This is especially true if your family is experiencing money problems. You may have heard them say, “No, we can’t afford that.” “We don‘t have enough money for that.”
“We don’t have time for that.” Or, when you were in the store and asking and pleading for something. You would hear, “No! Stop it! You can’t have that!”

These messages you heard as a child were usually said in a sharp frustrated tone of voice which made an emotional imprint in the subconscious mind.

When our parents reacted this way to our desires, we start to develop a belief that we should be ashamed of ourselves for even having desires and needs. This could actually set up in your subconscious as a vow that it is not OK to have needs. We carry these childhood messages into our adult lives. They can end up as blocks and resistance that slow you down when you are building your network marketing business.

There is good news. Using EFT you can shift things. You can clear out some of the negative programming from the past and shift to a better place. Even if things come up that remind you again of another layer of the issue, just return to tapping. We all have many layers, just like an onion. That’s what makes us all so interesting. 😉

How about a little tapping on this!

You can do EFT without oils but if you are a Young Living Essential Oil user, just add a couple drops of oil to your fingertips and start tapping through the points. For this tapping I would start with Release, then switch to Abundance essential oil blend.

Jump right in tapping through any of the points.
There was always anxiety and worry about money.
There was never enough.
Never-ending cycles of scarcity, Of struggle to make ends meet
I wanted things the other kids had.
I was told, “No! We can’t afford that.”
“No! We don’t have enough money for that.”
“No! We can’t afford that.”
“No! You don’t need that.”
“Stop it! You can’t have that!”
That’s what my parents would say.

Disappointment over and over.
I am feeling it.

I’m afraid to even think about what I need.
Because way back then
It wasn’t okay for me to have needs.
It wasn’t okay for me to have desires.
I had to do what they wanted me to do.
It wasn’t okay for me to ask for what I want.
All of this got programmed into my subconscious mind.
Programmed into my nervous system.
My family’s money problems and scarcity.
I made a vow that my needs are never met.
I made a vow that there will always be struggle around money and never enough to meet my needs.
I made a vow not to even ask for what I need.

These vows have been running in the background and affecting everything I do.
I have needs today.
I need to pay my bills.
I need to pay off my debt.
I need to hire help to make repairs on things.
But these old vows from the past have been causing me to sabotage my efforts to build my business.
It contributes to fear about money, depression about money, hopelessness and disappointment connected to money.
It causes me to play small and keep things the way they are.
I don’t want to keep things the way they are.
I want to build my business to help me better take care of my needs.
And some of my needs are more than needs.
I need some fun and travel in my life too.
Joy and happiness is also a need. So is FREEDOM!

It is time to …
Let go of all the lies and illusions I have been told.
Releasing all the limiting beliefs from my childhood.
Letting go of all the negative programming from my childhood.
Releasing all of the feelings of hopelessness that my needs were not being met.
Releasing all the anger at not getting what I want.
I didn’t have control back then but I do now.

I have control now.
I am in charge of my life.
I am in charge of how I show up in my life.
I get to decide how I want my life to look.
I can create whatever life I want to create.
I am a powerful resourceful creator.

I am releasing the vow that my needs are never met.
I am releasing the vow that there will always be struggle around money and never enough to meet my needs.
I am releasing the vow not to even ask for what I need.
I am releasing the emotional attachment to the vow that my needs are never met.
I am releasing the emotional attachment to the vow that there will always be struggle around money and never enough to meet my needs.
I am releasing the emotional attachment to the vow not to even ask for what I need.
Releasing it!
Letting it go!
Tapping it out of every cell in my body.
I am open to a whole new way with money.
So I can create my new reality.
So I can build a successful network marketing business.
I am open to earning much more, doing what I love.
I am creating my life, creating my money!
It’s my choice now. I am in control.
I free myself from these old money beliefs.
And I am now free to choose!
I am attracting abundance.
I am attracting everything I need.
I am deserving of love.
I am good enough.
I am getting my needs met in healthy ways.
I am worth it.
My needs are important.
I am attracting people and events that help fill my needs.
I am safe to move forward with my life.

Take a deep breath and let it all go!

Tap as often as you need whenever you feel any of the old programming from childhood coming up.
You might need to tap through this a few times, especially if money issues were a big issue in your family. Change up the words if you need to. Tap about whatever fear or negative feeling you have.

Essential oils aren’t necessary for tapping but they can really enhance things. ORDER essential oils TODAY!

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