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How Strong is Your WHY?

Do you ever feel like there are times when you can’t seem to stay motivated to do what it takes to grow your business and reach your goals? We all have days like that but sometimes we can get stuck in a pattern of spinning our wheels and making no progress. This can happen even when you have learned all kinds of good ideas and information that, when applied, will help grow your business.


Whenever you find yourself stuck and spinning your wheels, it’s time to get refocused on your WHY. Knowing WHY you want to build this business is a powerful motivator. This is crucial to your success. If you don’t know why you want success in your network marketing business, you WILL NEVER have any success that amounts to anything.


Have you thought about your WHY? It needs to be strong and emotional.


If you have a goal to earn $5,000 or $10,000 a month, that is not a strong WHY. Stop and think about why you want that income. There needs to be an emotional reason that drives you to press on through the difficult times.


For me, I wanted FREEDOM. Freedom from working crappy jobs that I hated that did not even help us make ends meet. I wanted freedom from bill collectors calling. I wanted freedom from the pain of seeing things that needed repair around the house and not having money to take care of it. I wanted to be able to LOVE my life. I also wanted to retire my husband from the high stress job he hated. There has to be more than the drudgery of working crappy jobs, coming home so tired you go to sleep and start over again day after day.


Your WHY is needs to be strong enough to pull you through the rough spots and make you push yourself to do things when you don’t feel like doing them. Think about it every morning and throughout the day.


Here is an EFT that may be helpful in focusing on your WHY:


Remembering My WHY


3377Tap through all the points. It doesn’t really matter what points you tap. For this one, I will use Young Living’s Magnify Your Purpose oil. Put a couple drops of oil on your fingertips before you begin tapping through the points.
As you tap, focus on your WHY. Picture it in your mind, feel the emotion.


Round One: Focusing on the Feelings
(eyebrow) I am feeling really discouraged.
(side of eye) I have a lot to do but I just don’t feel like doing any of it.
(under eye) When I think about all I have to do I feel stressed out because I just don’t want to.
(nose) I know I must be consistently working every day if I want my business to be successful …
(chin) but I feel like taking a nap.
(collarbone) I feel changes coming and I don’t feel like dealing with it.
(under arm) I feel like taking a break from this right now.
(head) I think I need a swift kick in the pants.


(eyebrow) I feel so unmotivated.
(side of eye) I know what I want to accomplish in my business.
(under eye) I really want to put this off until I feel better.
(nose) If I put this off, I am putting off my dreams.
(chin) If I put this off, I am putting off the FREEDOM I intend to build with my business!
(collarbone) I realize my subconscious is trying to sabotage my progress .
(under arm) I know my WHY!
(head) I am remembering WHY I want my business to be successful.


Round Two: Implant Positive
(eyebrow) I can shift this mood anytime and I choose to shift it now.
(side of eye) I am remembering WHY I want my business to grow.
(under eye) I am giving myself a kick in the pants.
(nose) Release and let go of the discouragement.
(chin) I know my WHY and I am thinking about it daily.
(collarbone) It is ok to relax once in a while but I am keeping motivated to get things done.
(under arm) I am remembering what FREEDOM looks like for me.
(head) I am choosing to be joyful and motivated.


(eyebrow) I can feel my intense WHY.
(side of eye) I see it in my mind and I will get to where I want to go.
(under eye) I know some days I get more done than other days and that’s OK.
(nose) I am choosing to feel happy and motivated.
(chin) I DO love and accept myself and I love my style of doing things.
(collarbone) I am trusting I will build this business and achieve my dreams.
(under arm) I am consistently doing my Daily Method Of Operation.
(head) I am remembering my WHY and accomplishing my goals in a calm and confident way!


There are several Young Living Essential Oils that are awesome to enhance EFT. Here are a few possible choices: Magnify Your Purpose, Motivation, Abundance, Awaken, Believe, Dream Catcher, Highest Potential, Harmony, Joy, Live With Passion, Present Time, Transformation, Valor Take your pick ;)



If you want to leave off the focus on negative and go straight to positive tapping, try the tapping below.



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Melodie Kantner

Melodie is the author of EFT For Network Marketers, publisher of Grade A Notes Newsletter (for 14 years), Network Marketing Success for Ordinary People and Esteem Power Newsletter. She has been in the network marketing industry for 18 years, 16 years with Young Living Essential Oils. Melodie has been teaching EFT to network marketers for over 10 years.

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The law of attraction is always at work in our life. We attract more of whatever energy we are radiating. Whether you believe it or not, the energy you radiate can affect your business success – prospecting and sales. You know that you have experienced times when someone who is in a bad mood enters the room. You can feel the energy drop. When you find yourself in a conversation with a negative person, you can feel your own energy drop.


We affect each other with our different moods. The same thing happens when we have money worries, scarcity thinking, negative feelings about sales, talking to strangers about our business or product and any number of other negative emotions. Those negative feelings are reflected in the way we speak and act in any situation, or if we will act at all.


Gratitude is one of, if not the most powerful attracting energy. That is why writing a daily gratitude list is really beneficial to keep your energy on the positive attracting side. I have to admit, I don’t always take the time to write my list down but I try to express gratitude every day about several things that I can be thankful for.


One especially nice time to reflect on things you are grateful for is while going on a walk. As you walk, you can express gratitude for the beauty of the trees, flowers, streams, things about your life, health, family, etc. This should be things you are truly grateful for. Even in troubled times, there are lots of things that we can be thankful for. Celebrate those things. Reflect and rejoice over the good things. Gratitude reduces negativity. It is hard to be negative about your situation when you are thinking about things for which you are grateful. It also helps improve your mood.


gratitude-oilApply a couple drops of Young Living Gratitude oil to enhance any gratitude reflection you are doing. I also recommend using Gratitude oil with any gratitude EFT Tapping you do. Tapping affirmations is really powerful. I recommend a Tap While You Thank session. Similar to Tap While You Gripe. You just tap any EFT points and say whatever you feel thankful for. The combination of Young Living Gratitude Oil with EFT while expressing gratitude is really powerful.


There are also times when abundant things happen. Those are times when it is important to celebrate and feel gratitude. That energy helps you attract more abundance. Dwelling on negative things like not having enough money can actually repel abundance. Celebrate even when you find a penny. You attracted money!


Here are a couple examples:


Gratitude Tapping


(eyebrow) Today was an abundant day.
(side of eye) How abundant I am!
(under eye) I am always finding money!
(nose) Yea! I love attracting good things!
(chin) I got a phone call from someone wanting product info.
(collarbone) I got a coupon for $10.00 off business supplies at Staples.
(under arm) My hubby did the dishes so I could return some business phone calls.
(head) I learned a great business tip from my upline.

You get the idea. Just tap through the points and think of all the abundant things that happened during the day.


Here’s another option:


Just start in tapping when something abundant happens. This is a great time to tap because you are feeling the abundant emotion. That is powerful and you can enhance it and program it into your cells by tapping.


(eyebrow) How abundant I am!
(side of eye) I found more money!
(under eye) I am always finding money!
(nose) That is SO COOL!
(chin) It seems like I find money wherever I go.
(collarbone) It’s like I am a magnet attracting money.
(under arm) I LOVE attracting money!
(head) I’m so ABUNDANT!


(eyebrow) How beautiful it is here.
(side of eye) I am so grateful to be alive!
(under eye) I am so grateful for my family.
(nose) We have such fun together.
(chin) I’m grateful for my Young Living Business that allows me the FREEDOM to work from home!
(collarbone) I am grateful for my health.
(under arm) I LOVE the beautiful rain that will produce nice green plants in the spring.
(head) I’m so grateful for my ABUNDANT blessings!



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Melodie Kantner

Melodie is the author of EFT For Network Marketers, publisher of Grade A Notes Newsletter (for 14 years), Network Marketing Success for Ordinary People and Esteem Power Newsletter. She has been in the network marketing industry for 18 years, 16 years with Young Living Essential Oils. Melodie has been teaching EFT to network marketers for over 10 years.

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