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In order for you to create a different life, you have to see yourself differently. If you want to transform your life or your business, you need to see yourself differently. How do you see yourself right now? Do you see yourself as a successful person or do you feel that success is for other people?


It starts with a clear vision of what success looks like. Where do you want to go in your business. Do you want to supplement the income you already have? Do you want to have full time income working from home? Do you want financial freedom?


WHY are you building your business? If you haven’t really thought about why you are building your business, you need to stop and think about that right now. You need a clear vision about where you are going. Not only seeing it but FEELING it.


focusWhat you focus on, you attract more of. If you are focusing on what you do not like about your situation, you will attract more of the same. If you focus on what you don’t like about the way your business is going, you will keep attracting the same things. You want to be focusing on where you want to be in your business. Close your eyes and visualize how things will look when you have achieved your goal.


I like to talk through my visualization to help me get to the feelings. Use lots of feeling words as you are doing it. For example:


If you want to get to full time income, you need to get to leadership levels in your company. Visualize yourself on stage getting an award and say, “I am so excited for the day when I will walk on stage and get my award. I am wearing a sharp business suit and there are upline waiting at the side to congratulate me, people are cheering I am giddy with excitement. I feel so proud that I have achieved this and I love how it feels to be an inspiration to my friends who are also working toward this goal. It is so exciting to have financial and time freedom and be able to do whatever I want anytime I want.”


I like to visualize getting awards because it represents getting to the leadership ranks which means you have built a large organization. It is not the awards but the FREEDOM that comes with building your business. Add anything that adds to your vision of success. If you want to travel, add some visualization about that. Just keep thinking and talking about the way you would like it to be and the feelings that will bring.


Whenever you catch yourself focusing on negative things you don’t want, stop yourself and refocus on what you want it to look like.


Young Living members have some helpful resources in the emotional oil blends. There are several that can be used here. Some possible choices are: Abundance, Dream Catcher, Envision, Live With Passion, Magnify Your Purpose, Transformation, Valor.


EFT Session: I want FREEDOM!


Even though I am not there yet, I choose to remember WHY I am building this business.
Even though I always struggled with making enough money, I am excited when I focus on the FREEDOM this business can bring me.
Even though I haven’t reached it yet, I love to focus on the FREEDOM this business can bring me.

Round One:


(eyebrow) I love to think about WHY I am building my business.
(side of eye) I am excited to be building financial FREEDOM.
(under eye) I love to focus on the FREEDOM I want.
(nose) I am happy to think about having FREEDOM with my time.
(chin) It’s exciting to be able to follow whatever schedule I choose.
(collarbone) I choose freedom.
(under arm) I know network marketing industry thrives in bad economy.
(head) It is exciting to help other people fine their FREEDOM.


(eyebrow) I spend a little time each day focusing on WHY I am building my business
(side of eye) I am on my way to FREEDOM.
(under eye) I am visualizing FREEDOM.
(nose) I am growing more and more confident every day.
(chin) I am remembering WHY I want my business to be successful.
(collarbone) I am so excited to be reaching my goals.
(under arm) I choose to focus on WHY I am building this business.
(head) I choose FREEDOM!!!



Another great way to keep your vision alive is to watch a Mind Movie every day. I made up one for distributors in my group who are working toward Silver Level. You can see it HERE.



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Melodie Kantner

Melodie is the author of EFT For Network Marketers, publisher of Grade A Notes Newsletter (for 14 years), Network Marketing Success for Ordinary People and Esteem Power Newsletter. She has been in the network marketing industry for 18 years, 16 years with Young Living Essential Oils. Melodie has been teaching EFT to network marketers for over 10 years.

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When you are working toward goals and moving forward with something that can result in big changes in your life, the resistance will often show up. The bigger the goal, the bigger the resistance we can feel. Change can be scary.


resistanceWhat will success bring? What changes will come when we are successful? How will our life change? In an effort to protect us from the scary unknown, our subconscious will put up all kinds of resistance. It feels safer in that comfort zone. The subconscious is always trying to protect you and keep things comfortable.


Sometimes resistance will show up in the form of procrastination. It starts with a negative feeling. fear, anxiety, maybe a little depression. We find ourselves getting distracted by other things. When we start building our business we want success but we may find ourselves sabotaging our efforts because we have a subconscious fear of change.


EFT can be a very helpful tool in working through feelings of resistance. Try the EFT session below whenever you feel a little resistance.


EFT Tapping on Resisting Change


Those of you who are using Young Living Essential Oils, you can apply Valor or Transformation oil to your fingertips before you begin tapping.


While tapping the Karate Chop Point, Repeat 3 Times:


Even though I am resisting change, I love and accept myself.
Even though I really love my comfort zone, I love and accept myself.
Even though It doesn’t feel safe to change, I love and accept myself.


Round One: Focusing on the Feelings
(eyebrow) It doesn’t feel safe to change.
(side of eye) I have a fear of change.
(under eye) Change really scares me.
(nose) It’s safer for me to stay in my comfort zone.
(chin) I know what to expect when I stay in my comfort zone.
(collarbone) I am afraid of change.
(under arm) I am afraid to let this work because change scares me.
(head) I feel safer in my comfort zone.


(eyebrow) I’d rather stay stuck in my comfort zone.
(side of eye) It feels safer in my comfort zone.
(under eye) I’d rather be safe than successful.
(nose) I am afraid to try something new.
(chin) I success would bring change.
(collarbone) Change feels dangerous.
(under arm) I am afraid of the unknown.
(head) I am resisting change.


Round Two: Implant Positive


(eyebrow) I am releasing my fear of change.
(side of eye) I’m releasing it from every cell in my body.
(under eye) Releasing all the ways I resist change.
(nose) Releasing this fear of change.
(chin) I have changed a lot already over the years.
(collarbone) I have liked a lot of the changes I have made.
(under arm) I have enjoyed a lot of the changes I have made already.
(head) It’s safe for me to make changes.


(eyebrow) I choose success and all the changes that go with it.
(side of eye) I am allowing myself to make positive changes.
(under eye) I am enjoying the changes that come with success.
(nose) I am joyfully allowing my success and the change that comes with it.
(chin) I am allowing myself to feel comfortable with the all changes that success brings.
(collarbone) I embrace change.
(under arm) I am grateful for the positive changes that come with my success.
(head) I am moving forward and embracing change in a calm and confident way!



Download the Printable Tapping EFT Points Document


Melodie Kantner

Melodie is the author of EFT For Network Marketers, publisher of Grade A Notes Newsletter (for 14 years), Network Marketing Success for Ordinary People and Esteem Power Newsletter. She has been in the network marketing industry for 18 years, 16 years with Young Living Essential Oils. Melodie has been teaching EFT to network marketers for over 10 years.

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