There is a book I love and I encourage everyone who is serious about the success of their network marketing business to read. Actually, there are several I recommend but the book I am talking about is, What to Say When You Talk to Your Self, by Shad Helmstetter


EFT For Network MarketersYour self talk has a powerful impact on your success in any endeavor but particularly when building your network marketing business. The words you are using all day long can either lift you or tear you down. Your self talk can either lift your mood or ruin it. Attract abundance or repel it.


It is important to release the negative emotions and keep the energy in a positive state. Your emotions affect your energy. Your ABUNDANCE attracting energy! They affect the way you do things in your business. The negative emotion affect the way you step up and talk to people. This is important because network marketing is a business where you talk to people.


Emotional Freedom Technique, sometimes called Tapping, is an awesome way to shift a negative energy and move into a more positive abundant energy. Affirmations can be helpful in redirecting our thinking and self talk. If you are having a bad day and you are feeling really negative, repeating affirmations over and over in your head can really help shift your mood.

That’s why, when someone asks me how I am, I like to say, “I am AWESOME!!!” or something similar. Never respond with something negative. Even if I have had a horrible day, I like to try to shift my mood with something that can be like an affirmation. I used to know someone who would respond, “I’m doing great and I know it just keeps getting better!” I love that one and occasionally will use it as my response. Now, be reasonable here. There are times you are not going to do that. If someone just died or some other really sad thing happened it would not be appropriate.

I like to enhance affirmations by tapping on the EFT points as I focus on the affirmations. You can use Emotional Freedom Technique to shift your energy to a more positive vibration. Add some essential oils and really power up your Affirmation Tapping. I like Abundance oil for business related Affirmation Tapping.


Make sure your affirmations are positive, NOT negative. For example: Rather than saying, “I am not attracting rude, grouchy distributors”, say, “I am attracting strong, confident, successful business builders who love the product.” Say whatever feels uplifting and empowering to your abundance.
Use the words, “I am” instead of “I will.” Saying, “I will” puts your goal off into the future. Instead of saying, “I will become Royal Crown Diamond” say, “I am building a Royal Crown Diamond team of distributors.”
Or, you could say, “I am Royal Crown Diamond.” If you have a little voice in your head disagreeing and saying, Ah, No you’re NOT!” Then word it like this, “I am attracting a Royal Crown Diamond team of distributors.”

A few ideas for Abundance Tapping:

    I am attracting a Royal Crown Diamond team of distributors.
    I LOVE that I am attracting strong, confident, successful business builders.
    I am GRATEFUL that abundance flows to me through my network marketing business.
    I am a very successful, magnetic leader.
    Every CELL in my body is full of ABUNDANCE.
    I radiate ABUNDANCE & I am like a MAGNET attracting MORE ABUNDANCE.
    I am a confident and successful leader.
    I am comfortable in front of people.

Add Abundance oil or another essential oil to your fingertips before you begin tapping through the EFT Points.

The EFT PointsEFT For Network Marketers - Tapping Points


KC = Karate Chop
EB = Beginning of the Eye Brow
SE = Side of the Eye
UE = Under the Eye
UN = Under the Nose
Ch = Chin
CB = Beginning of the Collar Bone
UA = Under the Arm
WR = Inside of Wrists
TH = Top of Head


You can also tap the fingertip points. I sometimes tap these points discreetly when I am in public. Each finger can be tapped at the base of the nail.


Think of a positive affirmation that will help shift your energy to a more confident one. Tap each point repeating the affirmation as you tap each point. You can say multiple affirmations as you are tapping if you choose. While you are doing this, try to keep a smile on your face. There is something about smiling that super charges this process.


Always be aware of the words you use and how they impact your emotional and abundance energy.


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In order for you to create a different life, you have to see yourself differently. If you want to transform your life or your business, you need to see yourself differently. How do you see yourself right now? Do you see yourself as a successful person or do you feel that success is for other people?


It starts with a clear vision of what success looks like. Where do you want to go in your business. Do you want to supplement the income you already have? Do you want to have full time income working from home? Do you want financial freedom?


WHY are you building your business? If you haven’t really thought about why you are building your business, you need to stop and think about that right now. You need a clear vision about where you are going. Not only seeing it but FEELING it.


focusWhat you focus on, you attract more of. If you are focusing on what you do not like about your situation, you will attract more of the same. If you focus on what you don’t like about the way your business is going, you will keep attracting the same things. You want to be focusing on where you want to be in your business. Close your eyes and visualize how things will look when you have achieved your goal.


I like to talk through my visualization to help me get to the feelings. Use lots of feeling words as you are doing it. For example:


If you want to get to full time income, you need to get to leadership levels in your company. Visualize yourself on stage getting an award and say, “I am so excited for the day when I will walk on stage and get my award. I am wearing a sharp business suit and there are upline waiting at the side to congratulate me, people are cheering I am giddy with excitement. I feel so proud that I have achieved this and I love how it feels to be an inspiration to my friends who are also working toward this goal. It is so exciting to have financial and time freedom and be able to do whatever I want anytime I want.”


I like to visualize getting awards because it represents getting to the leadership ranks which means you have built a large organization. It is not the awards but the FREEDOM that comes with building your business. Add anything that adds to your vision of success. If you want to travel, add some visualization about that. Just keep thinking and talking about the way you would like it to be and the feelings that will bring.


Whenever you catch yourself focusing on negative things you don’t want, stop yourself and refocus on what you want it to look like.


Young Living members have some helpful resources in the emotional oil blends. There are several that can be used here. Some possible choices are: Abundance, Dream Catcher, Envision, Live With Passion, Magnify Your Purpose, Transformation, Valor.

EFT Session: I want FREEDOM!


Even though I am not there yet, I choose to remember WHY I am building this business.
Even though I always struggled with making enough money, I am excited when I focus on the FREEDOM this business can bring me.
Even though I haven’t reached it yet, I love to focus on the FREEDOM this business can bring me.

Round One:


(eyebrow) I love to think about WHY I am building my business.
(side of eye) I am excited to be building financial FREEDOM.
(under eye) I love to focus on the FREEDOM I want.
(nose) I am happy to think about having FREEDOM with my time.
(chin) It’s exciting to be able to follow whatever schedule I choose.
(collarbone) I choose freedom.
(under arm) I know network marketing industry thrives in bad economy.
(head) It is exciting to help other people fine their FREEDOM.


(eyebrow) I spend a little time each day focusing on WHY I am building my business
(side of eye) I am on my way to FREEDOM.
(under eye) I am visualizing FREEDOM.
(nose) I am growing more and more confident every day.
(chin) I am remembering WHY I want my business to be successful.
(collarbone) I am so excited to be reaching my goals.
(under arm) I choose to focus on WHY I am building this business.
(head) I choose FREEDOM!!!



Another great way to keep your vision alive is to watch a Mind Movie every day. I made up one for distributors in my group who are working toward Silver Level. You can see it HERE.



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