I learned “WHAT IF” tapping from Carol Look, one of my favorite EFT mentors.  Adding the question, WHAT IF?  to your tapping allows you to imagine the possibilities, looking beyond what you see in your life right now. It is our limiting beliefs that can get in the way of the success we would like to see. It is important to believe you can achieve your goals.
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Most people aren’t thinking of ranking to Diamond or Royal Crown Diamond when they start out. It’s always the income. It’s a way to take control of your financial situation, whether to add a little extra income or to grow it into a business that could become fulltime income.

If you have the belief that earning substantial full time income in your network marketing business, will happen for other people but not for you, this limiting belief can get in the way and become a block to your success in the business.

If you have the belief that people can’t afford to buy products or the belief that you can’t build a business during a bad economy, these are limiting beliefs that will block your success.

Here is an important fact to remember: Network Marketing and Direct Sales businesses thrive during economic down times. People are often looking for ways to supplement their income, PLUS, many of the products offered by these companies are things people use on a daily basis. Why not earn a little income from things people need to use every day. Examples are cleaners, laundry soap, personal care products, health and stress relief and more.

Let’s clear those limiting beliefs right now.

Use the What If tapping to look beyond your limiting belief to visualize the possibilities and What if YOU can TOO? When you feel any limiting beliefs coming up, focus on those and keep tapping through the points and releasing the limiting beliefs.

For this tapping, I like to use essential oil blends that help you relax and think about the future. A few Young Living Oil Blend possibilities are: Abundance, Envision, Believe, Magnify Your Purpose, Transformation, Into The Future, Valor.

There are lots of possibilities for oils to use. Go with whatever feels right to you. The added essential oil is not necessary but the oil helps infuse extra energy into your tapping session.

If you are using essential oil in your tapping session, just add a couple drops to your fingertips before you begin tapping and start tapping through the points:

Starting on the Karate Chop point:

Even though I don’t believe I can build a strong income with this business, especially in this bad economy, WHAT IF I have been wrong about this?
Even though building a substantial income with network marketing works for other people but not me, WHAT IF I could actually build a full time income.
Even though I have had all these limiting beliefs about my ability to build a strong, abundant, income producing network marketing business, WHAT IF it IS possible for me?

Now tap through the rest of the points: (It doesn’t really matter which points, just tap through.)

What If I really could build this business into a substantial income?
What if I have learned someone else’s wrong limiting belief about success being for other people but not me?
What if the limiting beliefs I have learned are NOT TRUE?
What if I am in control of all of these limiting beliefs?
What if I am a really powerful business builder?
What if I really am a Diamond in the making?
What if, all this time my limiting beliefs have been blocking my efforts and making me spin my wheels. I have been blocking I have to do is believe it’s possible?
What if limiting beliefs are slowing me down like a stuck wheel on a shopping cart?
What if I can release these limiting beliefs and blocks to my building an abundantly income producing network marketing business?
What if I can actually build a business that would, not only help me but also help many others build a strong income working from home.
What if I am just as deserving and capable as anyone else who has built a successful business working from home?
What if I do have what it takes to build this business as big as I want it, all the way to the top rank?
What if I really CAN do this?
What if I DO deserve an abundantly successful income producing Diamond sized business just as much as they do?
What if I am releasing these blocks and limiting beliefs right now?
What if I am leading a team of happy abundantly income producers right now?
What if we are releasing our limiting beliefs and helping each other build this business?
What if I really could believe it?
Why NOT?
I’m not so different as they are!
I’m sure some of them had limiting beliefs too.
They just kept moving forward toward the goal!
One day at a time.
One Income Producing DAY at a time!
I can do that too!!!
I KNOW I can!
I have oils and EFT to help me.
I’m tapping away any limiting beliefs!
I am releasing the emotional attachment to the belief that I can’t build this business into a substantial income!
I really CAN do this!
I am attracting strong, confident, successful business builders and we are building a strong, abundant, income producing network marketing business TOGETHER!

Take a deep breath!

I recommend doing this tapping session daily. Things will come up in daily life. There will be things that feel frustrating. Unexpected bills, a pandemic or who knows what. When that happens, keep moving forward with tapping and clearing limiting beliefs. I will be doing it with you! Together we can do this!! 😉

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If you really want success in network marketing or any important goal you have, you need to get rid of negative self-limiting beliefs. That can be a challenge because we all have things from our past that has affected our mental programming. Those things factor in to how we move through life today.

One underlying fear that you may not even be aware of is the fear of change. That is one I was really surprised by when I took an abundance assessment test.

I learned that I have and “intense fear of change.” Well, I have done a lot of EFT clearing things that blocked abundance but apparently not enough. Anyway, now to clear that block.

It’s funny, you are working toward a goal because you want to change things but there is an underlying fear of change. You don’t have to be a mental giant to see that is going to be a major block to progress. It’s like climbing up a hill dragging a heavy object behind you. The intensity of the fear determines how heavy the block. If it’s just a little bit, you may only be slowed down but if it’s a really intense fear, it could keep you at a standstill for a long time.

The fear of change applies to all kinds of things: business goals, weight loss goals, spiritual goals, etc.

Think about your business goals. What do you intend for your business? Do you intend to build a business that will provide security for your family? Would you like to become a Diamond in your company? What are the changes that would come in your life if you achieved the rank of Diamond? Would you have to get on stage at conventions? Would more be required of you as a leader? What new responsibilities will I have? Will I have to do public speaking? How will I manage more money? What will friends and family think of the changes in my life? There may be others you can think of.


You can do some EFT to help release the fear of change. Think about what it will be like when you reach your goal. Whatever the goal is, picture yourself there. What feelings come up. Is there anything about that goal that seems a bit scary? Do you fear public speaking?


Here are a few oil blends that you could use with this EFT session. I am starting with Release and Valor. Abundance, Acceptance, Believe, Dream Catcher, Highest Potential, Into The Future, Motivation, Magnify Your Purpose, Release, Valor


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Before you begin the tapping script below, take note of note how uncomfortable you are about things that will change when you have success. On a scale between 0-10 how strong is the negative feeling? Tap until you get the negative feeling down to a zero.


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Start on the Karate chop point:
Even though I am afraid things will change too much if I am successful, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though success means change and that is scary, I choose to move ahead anyway.
Even though I am afraid of the changes that are coming so I am sabotaging success, I choose to release the fear and move confidently forward.


Round One: Focusing on the Feelings


(eyebrow) I have this fear of change.
(side of eye) Part of me wants things to stay the same.
(under eye) It’s easier to keep things as they are.
(nose) Part of me is afraid of being too successful in my business.
(chin) This fear of change is affecting the way I build my business.
(collarbone) This fear of change is holding me back.
(under arm) What am I afraid of if I have success?
(head) What am I so afraid of?


(eyebrow) I don’t know what to expect if I am successful.
(side of eye) I know what to expect if I stay here in this spot.
(under eye) I am uncomfortable with the changes that come with success.
(nose) I know what I want my life and business to be like.
(chin) I know what I want to experience.
(collarbone) Why wont I allow myself to have it?
(under arm) When I imagine myself as a Diamond … Why not me?
(head) Why not me?


Round Two: Implant Positive


(eyebrow) I do want success and that means change.
(side of eye) These limitations are just illusions
(under eye) I am capable of greater success.
(nose) I know I will be safe in my success.
(chin) Releasing the fear of change.
(collarbone) Releasing this limiting belief.
(under arm) Releasing those old limitations
(head) Releasing them at a cellular level and really setting myself free.


(eyebrow) I choose to know that I deserve success.
(side of eye) I deserve to be happy.
(under eye) I deserve to have a life that I love.
(nose) I can create it.
(chin) I AM creating it.
(collarbone) Releasing this limiting belief.
(under arm) Releasing those old limitations
(head) Releasing them at a cellular level and really setting myself free to move powerfully and joyfully forward.


Do you ever have feelings of guilt in your network marketing business? Let’s face it, we all do from time to time. Things happen. You get overwhelmed and discouraged. That’s when the procrastination starts. It can become a negative, progress blocking cycle. That’s when the guilt sets in and you start emotionally beating yourself up.


You may feel like you let your leader or mentor down. You had plans to do something with the business but time you start feeling embarrassed because you feel like the upline leader is disappointed in your progress. If this proceeds for any length of time the guilt can grow bigger to the point where you feel stuck and maybe even like giving up.


Let me stop here and tell you that your upline has been there and cares about you and understands that you will have times when your productivity will drop. This happens. Never feel embarrassed. Call your upline and have a mastermind session.


Here are a few things that can cause that niggly guilt feeling:


    Not as consistent as I wanted to be.
    Didn’t talk to anyone about the business or products.
    Didn’t have brochures or other prospecting tools with me to share with people I talk to.
    Didn’t check my email.
    Didn’t promptly respond to someone’s request for more information.
    I haven’t followed up on leads.
    It’s been way too long since I posted on my blog.
    It’s been way too long since I made a video.
    I wasn’t as good at communicating with my downline as I should have been.
    Haven’t been listening to audios or doing training that will make me stronger.

The list could go on but you get the idea.


Guilt is very destructive for your business. It is a very negative emotion that blocks theRelease Guilt abundance energy. You want to be feeling an abundant and prosperous energy when you are conducting your daily business activities, especially prospecting and following up on leads. When you feel guilty you can start feeling depressed and then beating up on yourself emotionally. This can get into a downward spiral.


We all have it from time to time. Whenever you start feeling the guilt, STOP and Forgive yourself. Remember that we all have these feelings sometimes. We all mess up. We all have times when we don’t feel like following up on leads. We all have moments when we are not as communicative as we should be. It is those times we need to pick ourselves up and readjust to get back on track.


It is for those times that I wrote the EFT tapping script below. It’s an EFT script to help you release guilt feelings and help you re-energize.

I like to use Release essential oil blend while tapping on the negative feelings, then shift to any of the more uplifting, motivating oils on the positive section. Put a couple drops on your fingertips and tap tap tap. 🙂


EFT Tapping on Releasing Guilt:

Even though I am feeling so guilty about not ____(following up on leads)_, I deeply and completely love and forgive myself.
Even though I have all this guilt about things I haven’t done for my business, I deeply and completely love and forgive myself.
Even though I am feeling guilt, I choose to forgive myself, release the guilt and move confidently forward.


    Round One: Focusing on the Feelings (Release oil blend is good during the negative tapping section)


    (eyebrow) I am feeling guilt about not doing things I know will grow my business.
    (side of eye) I know I should be ____________.
    (under eye) These guilt feelings are really getting me down.
    (nose) I can’t stop thinking about it but I can’t seem to get some of these things done.
    (chin) I will never be able to do these things perfectly.
    (collarbone) I see distributors progressing so quickly and I have been poking along slowly.
    (under arm) I am disappointed in myself.
    (head) It feels like I am dragging a heavy weight everywhere I go.


    (eyebrow) I can’t seem to stop punishing myself about things
    (side of eye) I feel just terrible.
    (under eye) My inaction is really causing me pain and guilt.
    (nose) I am so disappointed in myself for not doing ___________.
    (chin) I let myself down.
    (collarbone) Feeling so disappointed in myself.
    (under arm) I really need to release this guilt.
    (head) Guilt doesn’t help me progress toward my goals.


    (Stop here and take notice how high your level of guilt feels. What does the negative feeling feel like on a scale of 0-10? If it’s not at a 0 you can do a few more rounds on the previous sections until you get all the negative feeling released.)


    Round Two: Shift and Implant Positive


    (eyebrow) I have decided to forgive myself for messing up.
    (side of eye) I know everyone makes mistakes.
    (under eye) Even the Crown Diamond distributors make mistakes.
    (nose) I am forgiving myself for not _____________.
    (chin) It’s ok to be off my game once in a while.
    (collarbone) I just don’t need to be feeling this guilt.
    (under arm) Releasing and letting go all the guilt from every cell in my body.
    (head) Releasing the guilt and forgiving myself.


    (eyebrow) I release the guilt and move forward toward my goals.
    (side of eye) Letting it go.
    (under eye) I choose to forgive myself.
    (nose) Releasing and letting go all the guilt from every cell in my body.
    (chin) I am no longer beating up on myself.
    (collarbone) I choose to feel comfortable and confident in my success.
    (under arm) I choose to move forward.
    (head) I choose to readjust my efforts and make progress toward my goals.


    (eyebrow) I am charging forward like a Rhinoceros.
    (side of eye) I am confident and energized.
    (under eye) I am motivated and charging forward toward my success.
    (nose) I feel so much lighter remembering that even the Crown Diamond distributors make mistakes too but they still got to Crown Diamond.
    (chin) That feels so much better.
    (collarbone) I choose to feel comfortable and confident in my success.
    (under arm) I feel free and energized.
    (head) I AM confident, motivated and loving what I do.



Essential Oil Blends: Release, Acceptance, Abundance, Into The Future, Motivation, Magnify Your Purpose, Release, Valor


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