If you really want success in network marketing or any important goal you have, you need to get rid of negative self-limiting beliefs. That can be a challenge because we all have things from our past that has affected our mental programming. Those things factor in to how we move through life today.


One underlying fear that you may not even be aware of is the fear of change.


It’s funny, you are working toward a goal because you want to change things but there is an underlying fear of change. You don’t have to be a mental giant to see that is going to be a major block to progress. It’s like climbing up a hill dragging a heavy object behind you. The intensity of the fear determines how heavy the block. If it’s just a little bit, you may only be slowed down but if it’s a really intense fear, it could keep you at a standstill for a long time.


The fear of change applies to all kinds of things: business goals, weight loss goals, spiritual goals, etc.


The fear of change can be a big one. It is a fear that you may not even recognize but it could be getting in the way or slowing you down. It’s so much easier to stay with what you are familiar with, in your comfort zone.


Procrastination is one sign that you have some subconscious fear that is blocking your path. If you find that you are procrastinating things that would really move your business forward, you most likely have a fear of success. There are many little fears that can be going on.


When you notice you are procrastinating, stop and evaluate your feelings about success in your business. Think about what it will be like when you reach your goal. Whatever the goal is, picture yourself there. What feelings come up?


Do you notice any little negative feelings when you ask yourself these questions:


If I am successful in my network marketing business, what will happen? Will I have a lot of responsibility? Success in the network marketing profession requires that I will be a leader of a large group of people. Will I be able to lead a group of people? Am I responsible for their success? Will people be calling me and asking all kinds of questions? What if I don’t know the answers?


Will I have to speak in front of people at company events?


What if I start earning a lot of money? Will people start taking advantage of me?


How will my friends react if I become a big success in this business? Will they change how they feel about me? Will they be jealous of my success?


There are all kinds of underlying fears that can become blocks to our making progress. Those blocks can cause you to procrastinate and not be focused on the tasks that really produce results in business.


You can do some EFT to help release the fear of change. Try the EFT script below. Add any word changes that would better fit your feelings around this issue.


Young Living Essential oil blends that work well with this issue: Valor, Abundance, Acceptance, Believe, Dream Catcher, Highest Potential, Into The Future, Motivation, Magnify Your Purpose, Release
There are lots of possibilities for oils to use. Go with whatever feels right to you. The added essential oil is not necessary but the oil helps infuse extra energy into your tapping session.

If you are using essential oil in your tapping session, just add a couple drops to your fingertips before you begin tapping and start tapping through the points:


Start on the Karate chop point:
Even though I am afraid things will change too much if I am successful, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though success means change and that is scary, I choose to move ahead anyway.
Even though I am afraid of the changes that are coming so I am sabotaging success, I choose to release the fear and move confidently forward.


Tap through the other EFT Points:
I know things will change when I am successful.
What if others start looking to me for direction?
What if I let them down?
Part of me is afraid of being too successful in my business.
Part of me wants things to stay the same.
What if people look at me differently?
It all seems so scary.
So many changes.
I don’t know what to expect.


I know what to expect if I stay here in this spot.
Success feels scary.
I am uncomfortable with the changes that come with success.
It is easier to keep things as they are.
I am afraid of change.
This fear of change is affecting the way I build my business.
This fear of change is holding me back.
It is easier to stay with what I am familiar with.
I do want success and that means change.
I really DO want change.


Round Two: Implant Positive


I do want success and that means change.
I have decided to relax and let success come.
I know there will be changes.
I am confident about adjusting to the changes.
I know I will be safe in my success.
Changes will be a good thing.
Releasing the fear of change.
Releasing those old limitations
These limitations are just illusions
Releasing them at a cellular level and really setting myself free.
I DO want the changes that come with success.
I choose to feel comfortable and confident in my success.


I have decided to relax and let success come.
I know there will be changes.
I am confident about adjusting to the changes.
I know I will be safe in my success.
Changes will be a good thing.
I release the fear of change.
I DO want the changes that come with success.
I choose to feel comfortable and confident in my success.


(Repeat the last section as many times as you feel you need it in order to shift the energy)



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EFT - Release Fear of Change

When you are working toward goals and moving forward with something that can result in big changes in your life, the resistance will often show up. The bigger the goal, the bigger the resistance we can feel. Change can be scary.


resistanceWhat will success bring? What changes will come when we are successful? How will our life change? In an effort to protect us from the scary unknown, our subconscious will put up all kinds of resistance. It feels safer in that comfort zone. The subconscious is always trying to protect you and keep things comfortable.


Sometimes resistance will show up in the form of procrastination. It starts with a negative feeling: fear, feeling a little anxious, maybe a bad mood. We find ourselves getting distracted by other things. When we start building our business we want success but we may find ourselves sabotaging our efforts because we have a subconscious fear of change.


EFT can be a very helpful tool in working through feelings of resistance. Try the EFT session below whenever you feel a little resistance.


EFT Tapping on Resisting Change


Essential oils that could be used with this tapping: Valor, Acceptance, Release.
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Add a drop or two of essential oil to fingertips before tapping through the points.

While tapping the Karate Chop Point, Repeat 3 Times:


Even though I am resisting change, I love and accept myself.
Even though I really love my comfort zone, I love and accept myself.
Even though It doesn’t feel safe to change, I love and accept myself.


Round One: Focusing on the Feelings
(eyebrow) It doesn’t feel safe to change.
(side of eye) I have a fear of change.
(under eye) Change really scares me.
(nose) It’s safer for me to stay in my comfort zone.
(chin) I know what to expect when I stay in my comfort zone.
(collarbone) I am afraid of change.
(under arm) I am afraid to let this work because change scares me.
(head) I feel safer in my comfort zone.


(eyebrow) I’d rather stay stuck in my comfort zone.
(side of eye) It feels safer in my comfort zone.
(under eye) I’d rather be safe than successful.
(nose) I am afraid to try something new.
(chin) I success would bring change.
(collarbone) Change feels dangerous.
(under arm) I am afraid of the unknown.
(head) I am resisting change.


Round Two: Implant Positive


(eyebrow) I am releasing my fear of change.
(side of eye) I’m releasing it from every cell in my body.
(under eye) Releasing all the ways I resist change.
(nose) Releasing this fear of change.
(chin) I have changed a lot already over the years.
(collarbone) I have liked a lot of the changes I have made.
(under arm) I have enjoyed a lot of the changes I have made already.
(head) It’s safe for me to make changes.


(eyebrow) I choose success and all the changes that go with it.
(side of eye) I am allowing myself to make positive changes.
(under eye) I am enjoying the changes that come with success.
(nose) I am joyfully allowing my success and the change that comes with it.
(chin) I am allowing myself to feel comfortable with the all changes that success brings.
(collarbone) I embrace change.
(under arm) I am grateful for the positive changes that come with my success.
(head) I am moving forward and embracing change in a calm and confident way!



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Welcome to Day 21 of the 30 Day EFT Self-Esteem Tapping!


When our self-esteem is low our confidence level usually also low. Getting outside of our comfort zone under these conditions is really scary and sometimes we just don’t do it. We just stay where we feel comfortable. We have resistance to change. It’s unknown and too scary.

Today’s EFT tapping session is on releasing resistance to getting outside of our comfort zone. Releasing the resistance and shifting to confidence.

This is one of those EFT sessions that you may want to do daily for a while.

Remember, every day we are tapping on the first EFT Self-Esteem Tapping clip.

The second tapping clip for today is on “Confident Outside of My Comfort Zone” tapping session but it starts with tapping on the negative feelings you may have and then we will shift to positive tapping.

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EFT Tapping Clip: I Like Myself As I Am



YL Members: I am using Acceptance Oil Blend. See the printable scripts for other options.

Download the Printable Tapping Script: I Like Myself As I Am – positive affirmation EFT tapping



EFT Tapping Clip – Confident Outside of My Comfort Zone



YL Members: I am using Valor Oil Blend. See the printable scripts for other options.

Download the Printable Tapping Script: Confident Outside of My Comfort Zone EFT tapping script


Wishing you Abundant Self-Esteem,






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