If you really want success in network marketing or any important goal you have, you need to get rid of negative self-limiting beliefs. That can be a challenge because we all have things from our past that has affected our mental programming. Those things factor in to how we move through life today.


One underlying fear that you may not even be aware of is the fear of change.


It’s funny, you are working toward a goal because you want to change things but there is an underlying fear of change. You don’t have to be a mental giant to see that is going to be a major block to progress. It’s like climbing up a hill dragging a heavy object behind you. The intensity of the fear determines how heavy the block. If it’s just a little bit, you may only be slowed down but if it’s a really intense fear, it could keep you at a standstill for a long time.


The fear of change applies to all kinds of things: business goals, weight loss goals, spiritual goals, etc.


The fear of change can be a big one. It is a fear that you may not even recognize but it could be getting in the way or slowing you down. It’s so much easier to stay with what you are familiar with, in your comfort zone.


Procrastination is one sign that you have some subconscious fear that is blocking your path. If you find that you are procrastinating things that would really move your business forward, you most likely have a fear of success. There are many little fears that can be going on.


When you notice you are procrastinating, stop and evaluate your feelings about success in your business. Think about what it will be like when you reach your goal. Whatever the goal is, picture yourself there. What feelings come up?


Do you notice any little negative feelings when you ask yourself these questions:


If I am successful in my network marketing business, what will happen? Will I have a lot of responsibility? Success in the network marketing profession requires that I will be a leader of a large group of people. Will I be able to lead a group of people? Am I responsible for their success? Will people be calling me and asking all kinds of questions? What if I don’t know the answers?


Will I have to speak in front of people at company events?


What if I start earning a lot of money? Will people start taking advantage of me?


How will my friends react if I become a big success in this business? Will they change how they feel about me? Will they be jealous of my success?


There are all kinds of underlying fears that can become blocks to our making progress. Those blocks can cause you to procrastinate and not be focused on the tasks that really produce results in business.


You can do some EFT to help release the fear of change. Try the EFT script below. Add any word changes that would better fit your feelings around this issue.


Young Living Essential oil blends that work well with this issue: Valor, Abundance, Acceptance, Believe, Dream Catcher, Highest Potential, Into The Future, Motivation, Magnify Your Purpose, Release
There are lots of possibilities for oils to use. Go with whatever feels right to you. The added essential oil is not necessary but the oil helps infuse extra energy into your tapping session.

If you are using essential oil in your tapping session, just add a couple drops to your fingertips before you begin tapping and start tapping through the points:


Start on the Karate chop point:
Even though I am afraid things will change too much if I am successful, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though success means change and that is scary, I choose to move ahead anyway.
Even though I am afraid of the changes that are coming so I am sabotaging success, I choose to release the fear and move confidently forward.


Tap through the other EFT Points:
I know things will change when I am successful.
What if others start looking to me for direction?
What if I let them down?
Part of me is afraid of being too successful in my business.
Part of me wants things to stay the same.
What if people look at me differently?
It all seems so scary.
So many changes.
I don’t know what to expect.


I know what to expect if I stay here in this spot.
Success feels scary.
I am uncomfortable with the changes that come with success.
It is easier to keep things as they are.
I am afraid of change.
This fear of change is affecting the way I build my business.
This fear of change is holding me back.
It is easier to stay with what I am familiar with.
I do want success and that means change.
I really DO want change.


Round Two: Implant Positive


I do want success and that means change.
I have decided to relax and let success come.
I know there will be changes.
I am confident about adjusting to the changes.
I know I will be safe in my success.
Changes will be a good thing.
Releasing the fear of change.
Releasing those old limitations
These limitations are just illusions
Releasing them at a cellular level and really setting myself free.
I DO want the changes that come with success.
I choose to feel comfortable and confident in my success.


I have decided to relax and let success come.
I know there will be changes.
I am confident about adjusting to the changes.
I know I will be safe in my success.
Changes will be a good thing.
I release the fear of change.
I DO want the changes that come with success.
I choose to feel comfortable and confident in my success.


(Repeat the last section as many times as you feel you need it in order to shift the energy)



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EFT - Release Fear of Change

Abundance and Gratitude essential oil blends are two oils I like to recommend to lift the abundance attracting energy and focus on growing your home business. Abundance Oil is a good one for when you want a more abundant energy and attracting good things. Gratitude Oil is great for focusing on feeling grateful.

Gratitude is one of the most powerful positive abundance attracting energies. Focusing in the things you are grateful for. This shifts out of negative and into a much better energy. It affects the mood for the better and makes everything better.

I recommend using some Gratitude Oil along with Gratitude Tapping. Try it. It’s a wonderful uplift.
Add a couple drops of Gratitude Oil on your fingertips before you begin tapping through the EFT Points.

If you don’t know how to do EFT, go to the website below and see how to do this easy Emotional Freedom Technique.
https://www.melodiekantner.com/how-to-do-eft

Gratitude Tapping

Today was an abundant day.
How abundant I am!
I found money on the ground!
Yeah! I love attracting good things!
I got a coupon for $10.00 off business supplies at Staples.
My hubby did the dishes so I could do a little watercolor painting.
The wren singing in the tree outside my window as I paint.
The beauty of creation.
I learned a great business tip online.
My son saying, “Hey mom. You wanna hang out on Zoom?”
The smell of Rose Oil.
Clean sheets.
Fresh roasted coffee.

You get the idea. Just tap through the points and think of all the abundant things that happened during the day.

When you find even one penny, it’s MONEY! Say I attracted MONEY, not a penny. Your subconscious doesn’t know the difference between a penny and money.

Here’s another option:

Just start in tapping when something abundant happens. This is a great time to tap because you are feeling the abundant emotion. That is powerful and you can enhance it and program it into your cells by tapping. Discreetly tap on your fingers at the base of the nail. ?

How abundant I am!
I found more money!
I am always finding money!
That is SO COOL!
It seems like I find money wherever I go.
It’s like I am a magnet attracting money.
I LOVE attracting money!
I’m so ABUNDANT!

Abundance Oil is one that we really need, especially in the stressful times we are living and the economy worries many people are feeling.

If you are familiar with the Law of Attraction, you know that what you focus on you attract more of. When you worry and stress over the economy, you hinder the abundant energy you have in your body. That makes it almost impossible to build a business or attract any kind of abundance.

I have seen the Law of Attraction working from both sides. Years ago, I went through a time where I was desperate to generate enough income to just make ends meet. I was in a sales job with a home cleaning system where I had to visit people’s home to demonstrate the cleaner and only got paid when I sold one. It seemed as though I couldn’t sell one if my life depended on it. Actually, my financial life did depend on it.

I didn’t understand the Law of Attraction back than but I do today. The reason I couldn’t make any sales is because I had an energy vibration of desperation. I desperately needed a sale. I was radiating that desperate energy. People could feel it. I didn’t realize I was affecting people with my desperate energy.

Here is another example – Around that same time my husband and I were traveling and doing art shows for our jewelry designs. Mark, my husband, made flameworked glass beads and I did copper enamel designs. We put them together with gemstones and made beautiful works of wearable art.

We won several best of show awards with our designs and even drew crowds with Mark demonstrating glass bead making over a flame, but making enough money to create a living was a real struggle. We would often just cover show expenses.

Oh, how I wish I had known about Abundance oil back then! Well, today I am so very grateful for Abundance oil blend. It is, hands down, my favorite oil. I use it EVERY DAY. By using Abundance oil, I become like a magnet attracting abundance. I would never consider touching anything business related without using Abundance oil first.

Abundance is a blend that raises your energetic vibration to attract greater prosperity into your life. It is an oil blend that is “created to enhance the frequency of the harmonic magnetic energy field that surrounds us. This higher frequency creates the “law of attraction,” a harmonic magnetic energy field around oneself.

How To Use Abundance Oil Blend

Use Abundance Oil blend first thing in the morning to get a good energy for the day, then use it whenever you feel the need for an abundant lift. Put 2 or 3 drops in your hands and rub together. Inhale deeply.

Use Abundance Oil before doing anything business related.

Add a few drops of Abundance Oil to cleaning water, especially when cleaning your office.

Diffuse it in your home office.

Put Abundance Oil on before paying bills.

Use Abundance Oil With EFT.

An example of an EFT session below on worries about the economy. You could also use Peace & Calming for the first part of the tapping script while you focus on negative emotions, then shift to Abundance Oil and focus on more positive abundance attracting energy.

Add a couple drops of Essential Oil to your fingertips before you begin tapping.

Tapping on the Karate Chop Point:

Even though I am afraid because of the economy, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though the news is full of depressing things about the economy and people losing their jobs, I choose to accept myself and release my fears.
Even though I am worried about how will we will pay all our bills during this worrisome time, I choose to accept myself and release my fears.

Tapping through the EFT Points: (It doesn’t matter which points, just tap through)

This economy is so scary.
I am afraid there isn’t enough income these days of quarantine.
The news is full of scary things.
So stressful.
I have bills to pay and obligations to meet.
I am feeling all this stress.
Stress and worry.
What if this gets worse?
I can’t help but to worry about the future.
I’m a little afraid there is no hope.
Feeling stress and fear.
OK, I know these negative thoughts only feed the fear.

I choose to shift to a better energy.
Negative thoughts and feelings block abundance.
I am choosing a better energy.
I am releasing the fear about the economy.
We have been through bad economy before.
Releasing negative emotions about the economy.
Releasing the fear that there is not enough money.
Release and let go of fears about income.
Releasing fears about the economy.
Letting go of the fear that there will never be enough.
I am releasing the fear that I won’t be able to pay my bills.
Letting go of the stress.
I am releasing all my fears about the economy.

I choose to feel calm and safe.
I feel confident in my ability to attract the income I need.
I choose to feel excited about the opportunity that this economy is creating.
This is a great time to work on my Side Hustle with my Young Living Business.

I am confident there are plenty of people who want to supplement their income.
Some of those would love to join me.
We can do this together.
I choose to feel comfortable and full of expectation in any economy.
No matter what is happening around me,
I choose to be calm and in peace.
I am strong.
I am confident.
I am peaceful.
I am attracting abundance, no matter what the economy is like.

Take a deep breath.

I added some words to this tapping session about Plan B, Side Hustle because it is these times when the economy is bad, people are looking for ways to earn extra income. Network Marketing and Direct Sales Businesses actually thrive in bad economy because of people working to build supplemental income.

If you are already working your Plan B, EFT and essential oils can be really helpful to shift to a more abundance attracting energy.

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Do you remember when you were a kid and you wanted something like a game, a toy or some current clothing style of the day? When you were a kid, you wanted things.

Kids just want everything . . .

“Mom, I want this toy!” “Mom, I want these shoes” “Mom, I want …”

Parents have a lot on their shoulders. They have all the household expenses, earning a living and taking care of their family and all that is involved with that. If there are are multiple children this can be very challenging. Kids are always needing things. Kids want things all the time. Every new toy that comes out. It’s not possible to get everything you want. This is especially true if your family is experiencing money problems. You may have heard them say, “No, we can’t afford that.” “We don‘t have enough money for that.”
“We don’t have time for that.” Or, when you were in the store and asking and pleading for something. You would hear, “No! Stop it! You can’t have that!”

These messages you heard as a child were usually said in a sharp frustrated tone of voice which made an emotional imprint in the subconscious mind.

When our parents reacted this way to our desires, we start to develop a belief that we should be ashamed of ourselves for even having desires and needs. This could actually set up in your subconscious as a vow that it is not OK to have needs. We carry these childhood messages into our adult lives. They can end up as blocks and resistance that slow you down when you are building your network marketing business.

There is good news. Using EFT you can shift things. You can clear out some of the negative programming from the past and shift to a better place. Even if things come up that remind you again of another layer of the issue, just return to tapping. We all have many layers, just like an onion. That’s what makes us all so interesting. 😉

How about a little tapping on this!

You can do EFT without oils but if you are a Young Living Essential Oil user, just add a couple drops of oil to your fingertips and start tapping through the points. For this tapping I would start with Release, then switch to Abundance essential oil blend.

Jump right in tapping through any of the points.
There was always anxiety and worry about money.
There was never enough.
Never-ending cycles of scarcity, Of struggle to make ends meet
I wanted things the other kids had.
I was told, “No! We can’t afford that.”
“No! We don’t have enough money for that.”
“No! We can’t afford that.”
“No! You don’t need that.”
“Stop it! You can’t have that!”
That’s what my parents would say.

Disappointment over and over.
I am feeling it.

I’m afraid to even think about what I need.
Because way back then
It wasn’t okay for me to have needs.
It wasn’t okay for me to have desires.
I had to do what they wanted me to do.
It wasn’t okay for me to ask for what I want.
All of this got programmed into my subconscious mind.
Programmed into my nervous system.
My family’s money problems and scarcity.
I made a vow that my needs are never met.
I made a vow that there will always be struggle around money and never enough to meet my needs.
I made a vow not to even ask for what I need.

These vows have been running in the background and affecting everything I do.
I have needs today.
I need to pay my bills.
I need to pay off my debt.
I need to hire help to make repairs on things.
But these old vows from the past have been causing me to sabotage my efforts to build my business.
It contributes to fear about money, depression about money, hopelessness and disappointment connected to money.
It causes me to play small and keep things the way they are.
I don’t want to keep things the way they are.
I want to build my business to help me better take care of my needs.
And some of my needs are more than needs.
I need some fun and travel in my life too.
Joy and happiness is also a need. So is FREEDOM!

It is time to …
Let go of all the lies and illusions I have been told.
Releasing all the limiting beliefs from my childhood.
Letting go of all the negative programming from my childhood.
Releasing all of the feelings of hopelessness that my needs were not being met.
Releasing all the anger at not getting what I want.
I didn’t have control back then but I do now.

I have control now.
I am in charge of my life.
I am in charge of how I show up in my life.
I get to decide how I want my life to look.
I can create whatever life I want to create.
I am a powerful resourceful creator.

I am releasing the vow that my needs are never met.
I am releasing the vow that there will always be struggle around money and never enough to meet my needs.
I am releasing the vow not to even ask for what I need.
I am releasing the emotional attachment to the vow that my needs are never met.
I am releasing the emotional attachment to the vow that there will always be struggle around money and never enough to meet my needs.
I am releasing the emotional attachment to the vow not to even ask for what I need.
Releasing it!
Letting it go!
Tapping it out of every cell in my body.
I am open to a whole new way with money.
So I can create my new reality.
So I can build a successful network marketing business.
I am open to earning much more, doing what I love.
I am creating my life, creating my money!
It’s my choice now. I am in control.
I free myself from these old money beliefs.
And I am now free to choose!
I am attracting abundance.
I am attracting everything I need.
I am deserving of love.
I am good enough.
I am getting my needs met in healthy ways.
I am worth it.
My needs are important.
I am attracting people and events that help fill my needs.
I am safe to move forward with my life.

Take a deep breath and let it all go!

Tap as often as you need whenever you feel any of the old programming from childhood coming up.
You might need to tap through this a few times, especially if money issues were a big issue in your family. Change up the words if you need to. Tap about whatever fear or negative feeling you have.

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