If you really want success in network marketing or any important goal you have, you need to get rid of negative self-limiting beliefs. That can be a challenge because we all have things from our past that has affected our mental programming. Those things factor in to how we move through life today.


One underlying fear that you may not even be aware of is the fear of change.


It’s funny, you are working toward a goal because you want to change things but there is an underlying fear of change. You don’t have to be a mental giant to see that is going to be a major block to progress. It’s like climbing up a hill dragging a heavy object behind you. The intensity of the fear determines how heavy the block. If it’s just a little bit, you may only be slowed down but if it’s a really intense fear, it could keep you at a standstill for a long time.


The fear of change applies to all kinds of things: business goals, weight loss goals, spiritual goals, etc.


The fear of change can be a big one. It is a fear that you may not even recognize but it could be getting in the way or slowing you down. It’s so much easier to stay with what you are familiar with, in your comfort zone.


Procrastination is one sign that you have some subconscious fear that is blocking your path. If you find that you are procrastinating things that would really move your business forward, you most likely have a fear of success. There are many little fears that can be going on.


When you notice you are procrastinating, stop and evaluate your feelings about success in your business. Think about what it will be like when you reach your goal. Whatever the goal is, picture yourself there. What feelings come up?


Do you notice any little negative feelings when you ask yourself these questions:


If I am successful in my network marketing business, what will happen? Will I have a lot of responsibility? Success in the network marketing profession requires that I will be a leader of a large group of people. Will I be able to lead a group of people? Am I responsible for their success? Will people be calling me and asking all kinds of questions? What if I don’t know the answers?


Will I have to speak in front of people at company events?


What if I start earning a lot of money? Will people start taking advantage of me?


How will my friends react if I become a big success in this business? Will they change how they feel about me? Will they be jealous of my success?


There are all kinds of underlying fears that can become blocks to our making progress. Those blocks can cause you to procrastinate and not be focused on the tasks that really produce results in business.


You can do some EFT to help release the fear of change. Try the EFT script below. Add any word changes that would better fit your feelings around this issue.


Young Living Essential oil blends that work well with this issue: Valor, Abundance, Acceptance, Believe, Dream Catcher, Highest Potential, Into The Future, Motivation, Magnify Your Purpose, Release
There are lots of possibilities for oils to use. Go with whatever feels right to you. The added essential oil is not necessary but the oil helps infuse extra energy into your tapping session.

If you are using essential oil in your tapping session, just add a couple drops to your fingertips before you begin tapping and start tapping through the points:


Start on the Karate chop point:
Even though I am afraid things will change too much if I am successful, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though success means change and that is scary, I choose to move ahead anyway.
Even though I am afraid of the changes that are coming so I am sabotaging success, I choose to release the fear and move confidently forward.


Tap through the other EFT Points:
I know things will change when I am successful.
What if others start looking to me for direction?
What if I let them down?
Part of me is afraid of being too successful in my business.
Part of me wants things to stay the same.
What if people look at me differently?
It all seems so scary.
So many changes.
I don’t know what to expect.


I know what to expect if I stay here in this spot.
Success feels scary.
I am uncomfortable with the changes that come with success.
It is easier to keep things as they are.
I am afraid of change.
This fear of change is affecting the way I build my business.
This fear of change is holding me back.
It is easier to stay with what I am familiar with.
I do want success and that means change.
I really DO want change.


Round Two: Implant Positive


I do want success and that means change.
I have decided to relax and let success come.
I know there will be changes.
I am confident about adjusting to the changes.
I know I will be safe in my success.
Changes will be a good thing.
Releasing the fear of change.
Releasing those old limitations
These limitations are just illusions
Releasing them at a cellular level and really setting myself free.
I DO want the changes that come with success.
I choose to feel comfortable and confident in my success.


I have decided to relax and let success come.
I know there will be changes.
I am confident about adjusting to the changes.
I know I will be safe in my success.
Changes will be a good thing.
I release the fear of change.
I DO want the changes that come with success.
I choose to feel comfortable and confident in my success.


(Repeat the last section as many times as you feel you need it in order to shift the energy)



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EFT - Release Fear of Change

Do you ever have feelings of guilt in your network marketing business? Let’s face it, we all do from time to time. Things happen. You get overwhelmed and discouraged. That’s when the procrastination starts. It can become a negative, progress blocking cycle. That’s when the guilt sets in and you start emotionally beating yourself up.


You may feel like you let your leader or mentor down. You had plans to do something with the business but time you start feeling embarrassed because you feel like the upline leader is disappointed in your progress. If this proceeds for any length of time the guilt can grow bigger to the point where you feel stuck and maybe even like giving up.


Let me stop here and tell you that your upline has been there and cares about you and understands that you will have times when your productivity will drop. This happens. Never feel embarrassed. Call your upline and have a mastermind session.


Here are a few things that can cause that niggly guilt feeling:


    Not as consistent as I wanted to be.
    Didn’t talk to anyone about the business or products.
    Didn’t have brochures or other prospecting tools with me to share with people I talk to.
    Didn’t check my email.
    Didn’t promptly respond to someone’s request for more information.
    I haven’t followed up on leads.
    It’s been way too long since I posted on my blog.
    It’s been way too long since I made a video.
    I wasn’t as good at communicating with my downline as I should have been.
    Haven’t been listening to audios or doing training that will make me stronger.

The list could go on but you get the idea.


Guilt is very destructive for your business. It is a very negative emotion that blocks theRelease Guilt abundance energy. You want to be feeling an abundant and prosperous energy when you are conducting your daily business activities, especially prospecting and following up on leads. When you feel guilty you can start feeling depressed and then beating up on yourself emotionally. This can get into a downward spiral.


We all have it from time to time. Whenever you start feeling the guilt, STOP and Forgive yourself. Remember that we all have these feelings sometimes. We all mess up. We all have times when we don’t feel like following up on leads. We all have moments when we are not as communicative as we should be. It is those times we need to pick ourselves up and readjust to get back on track.


It is for those times that I wrote the EFT tapping script below. It’s an EFT script to help you release guilt feelings and help you re-energize.

I like to use Release essential oil blend while tapping on the negative feelings, then shift to any of the more uplifting, motivating oils on the positive section. Put a couple drops on your fingertips and tap tap tap. 🙂


EFT Tapping on Releasing Guilt:

Even though I am feeling so guilty about not ____(following up on leads)_, I deeply and completely love and forgive myself.
Even though I have all this guilt about things I haven’t done for my business, I deeply and completely love and forgive myself.
Even though I am feeling guilt, I choose to forgive myself, release the guilt and move confidently forward.


    Round One: Focusing on the Feelings (Release oil blend is good during the negative tapping section)


    (eyebrow) I am feeling guilt about not doing things I know will grow my business.
    (side of eye) I know I should be ____________.
    (under eye) These guilt feelings are really getting me down.
    (nose) I can’t stop thinking about it but I can’t seem to get some of these things done.
    (chin) I will never be able to do these things perfectly.
    (collarbone) I see distributors progressing so quickly and I have been poking along slowly.
    (under arm) I am disappointed in myself.
    (head) It feels like I am dragging a heavy weight everywhere I go.


    (eyebrow) I can’t seem to stop punishing myself about things
    (side of eye) I feel just terrible.
    (under eye) My inaction is really causing me pain and guilt.
    (nose) I am so disappointed in myself for not doing ___________.
    (chin) I let myself down.
    (collarbone) Feeling so disappointed in myself.
    (under arm) I really need to release this guilt.
    (head) Guilt doesn’t help me progress toward my goals.


    (Stop here and take notice how high your level of guilt feels. What does the negative feeling feel like on a scale of 0-10? If it’s not at a 0 you can do a few more rounds on the previous sections until you get all the negative feeling released.)


    Round Two: Shift and Implant Positive


    (eyebrow) I have decided to forgive myself for messing up.
    (side of eye) I know everyone makes mistakes.
    (under eye) Even the Crown Diamond distributors make mistakes.
    (nose) I am forgiving myself for not _____________.
    (chin) It’s ok to be off my game once in a while.
    (collarbone) I just don’t need to be feeling this guilt.
    (under arm) Releasing and letting go all the guilt from every cell in my body.
    (head) Releasing the guilt and forgiving myself.


    (eyebrow) I release the guilt and move forward toward my goals.
    (side of eye) Letting it go.
    (under eye) I choose to forgive myself.
    (nose) Releasing and letting go all the guilt from every cell in my body.
    (chin) I am no longer beating up on myself.
    (collarbone) I choose to feel comfortable and confident in my success.
    (under arm) I choose to move forward.
    (head) I choose to readjust my efforts and make progress toward my goals.


    (eyebrow) I am charging forward like a Rhinoceros.
    (side of eye) I am confident and energized.
    (under eye) I am motivated and charging forward toward my success.
    (nose) I feel so much lighter remembering that even the Crown Diamond distributors make mistakes too but they still got to Crown Diamond.
    (chin) That feels so much better.
    (collarbone) I choose to feel comfortable and confident in my success.
    (under arm) I feel free and energized.
    (head) I AM confident, motivated and loving what I do.



Essential Oil Blends: Release, Acceptance, Abundance, Into The Future, Motivation, Magnify Your Purpose, Release, Valor


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I decided to add a new feature to this blog. It is a series of EFT tapping sessions to raise our abundance energy and focus.


When we are doing our daily business tasks, especially when we are connecting with prospects, downline, doing follow up, writing articles and blog posts, it is vital that we are radiating a good abundant energy. Even Attraction Marketing won’t be effective if we are vibrating sucky energy.


I am adding a tab at the top where you can access the Rev Up Abundance tapping sessions. This first one is on WHY and Your Network Marketing Mission.