If you really want success in network marketing or any important goal you have, you need to get rid of negative self-limiting beliefs. That can be a challenge because we all have things from our past that has affected our mental programming. Those things factor in to how we move through life today.

One underlying fear that you may not even be aware of is the fear of change.

It’s funny, you are working toward a goal because you want to change things but there is an underlying fear of change. You don’t have to be a mental giant to see that is going to be a major block to progress. It’s like climbing up a hill dragging a heavy object behind you. The intensity of the fear determines how heavy the block. If it’s just a little bit, you may only be slowed down but if it’s a really intense fear, it could keep you at a standstill for a long time.

The fear of change applies to all kinds of things: business goals, weight loss goals, spiritual goals, etc.

The fear of change can be a big one. It is a fear that you may not even recognize but it could be getting in the way or slowing you down. It’s so much easier to stay with what you are familiar with, in your comfort zone.

Procrastination is one sign that you have some subconscious fear that is blocking your path. If you find that you are procrastinating things that would really move your business forward, you most likely have a fear of success. There are many little fears that can be going on.

When you notice you are procrastinating, stop and evaluate your feelings about success in your business. Think about what it will be like when you reach your goal. Whatever the goal is, picture yourself there. What feelings come up?

Do you notice any little negative feelings when you ask yourself these questions:

If I am successful in my network marketing business, what will happen? Will I have a lot of responsibility? Success in the network marketing profession requires that I will be a leader of a large group of people. Will I be able to lead a group of people? Am I responsible for their success? Will people be calling me and asking all kinds of questions? What if I don’t know the answers?

Will I have to speak in front of people at company events?

What if I start earning a lot of money? Will people start taking advantage of me?

How will my friends react if I become a big success in this business? Will they change how they feel about me? Will they be jealous of my success?

There are all kinds of underlying fears that can become blocks to our making progress. Those blocks can cause you to procrastinate and not be focused on the tasks that really produce results in business.

You can do some EFT to help release the fear of change. Try the EFT script below. Add any word changes that would better fit your feelings around this issue.

Young Living Essential oil blends that work well with this issue: Valor, Abundance, Acceptance, Believe, Dream Catcher, Highest Potential, Into The Future, Motivation, Magnify Your Purpose, Release
There are lots of possibilities for oils to use. Go with whatever feels right to you. The added essential oil is not necessary but the oil helps infuse extra energy into your tapping session.

If you are using essential oil in your tapping session, just add a couple drops to your fingertips before you begin tapping and start tapping through the points:

Start on the Karate chop point:
Even though I am afraid things will change too much if I am successful, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though success means change and that is scary, I choose to move ahead anyway.
Even though I am afraid of the changes that are coming so I am sabotaging success, I choose to release the fear and move confidently forward.

Tap through the other EFT Points:
I know things will change when I am successful.
What if others start looking to me for direction?
What if I let them down?
Part of me is afraid of being too successful in my business.
Part of me wants things to stay the same.
What if people look at me differently?
It all seems so scary.
So many changes.
I don’t know what to expect.

I know what to expect if I stay here in this spot.
Success feels scary.
I am uncomfortable with the changes that come with success.
It is easier to keep things as they are.
I am afraid of change.
This fear of change is affecting the way I build my business.
This fear of change is holding me back.
It is easier to stay with what I am familiar with.
I do want success and that means change.
I really DO want change.

Round Two: Implant Positive

I do want success and that means change.
I have decided to relax and let success come.
I know there will be changes.
I am confident about adjusting to the changes.
I know I will be safe in my success.
Changes will be a good thing.
Releasing the fear of change.
Releasing those old limitations
These limitations are just illusions
Releasing them at a cellular level and really setting myself free.
I DO want the changes that come with success.
I choose to feel comfortable and confident in my success.

I have decided to relax and let success come.
I know there will be changes.
I am confident about adjusting to the changes.
I know I will be safe in my success.
Changes will be a good thing.
I release the fear of change.
I DO want the changes that come with success.
I choose to feel comfortable and confident in my success.

(Repeat the last section as many times as you feel you need it in order to shift the energy)

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EFT - Release Fear of Change

I recently had a person comment on one of my articles on fear of success. He thought it was absurd that someone would fear success. He said, “Everyone wants success.”

Well, that is true, everyone does want success but why is it that NOT EVERYONE is successful? The simple fact is, everyone has hidden fears about something. These hidden fears can cause resistance to success. Your subconscious mind is operating on another level and it might be sabotaging your success.

You want to be successful but you keep getting in your own way. I know how that feels. I have gone through periods of sabotage. EFT is the best way to clear it and get moving again. If you are serious about reducing sabotage, you will want to do some EFT every morning to get your mindset and vibrational energy in the abundance attracting side rather than repelling. If you are resisting, you are repelling whatever it is you want to attract.

Think about what you want.

    What does success in your network marketing business feel like?
    Picture yourself there.
    What is happening?
    What responsibilities will you have?
    How much money is coming in with your monthly commission check?
    What is the size of your team?
    What kind of leader are you?
    How many leaders do you have on your team?

As you think about each of these things, take notice of how you feel as you think about EACH ONE. If you get any negative feelings like nervousness, anxiety, fear, overwhelm, or anything negative, these are things that can become blocks. These blocks can cause you to fall into sabotaging behavior.

Do you ever find yourself “going down a rabbit hole” when you really intend to be working on income producing activities? You know what I mean. Those “SQUIRREL MOMENTS.” Those of you who saw the movie “UP” know what squirrel moments are. 😉

Anyway, You intend to do some prospecting, make some followup phone calls, write a blog post or some other business building activity but you see a drawer that needs to be cleaned out, a closet that needs organizing, dust bunnies, a little online research, a cat video on Facebook. You find yourself distracted and procrastinating. The time slips away and you didn’t get anything on your income producing activities list done.

I get it. I have those moments too. The key is, when you notice yourself falling into a squirrel moment or some other form of procrastination, stop and do some EFT!

Think about some of these possible hidden fears:

    New responsibilities
    People expect things of you
    There are lots of changes
    A lot of work involved
    I’ll have no time
    I don’t like calling people on the phone
    I don’t like talking to strangers
    Fear you won’t be able to do what it takes
    Fear of letting your spouse or family down

    Past issues
    You may have witnessed the toll success has taken on someone you know
    The way your parents talked about successful people
    Harsh judgments you witnessed other people doing to people who were successful

These are just a few examples. There are all kinds of things that come with success. Some of these things are scary but EFT is a great way to clear those negative feelings.

Below is a Tapping Script for those times when you are having a SQUIRREL MOMENT. I would use Valor and Acceptance oil with this one. You could do some rounds with Magnify Your Purpose oil. More on those oils here.


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Even though I am having another SQUIRREL MOMENT, I deeply love and accept myself
Even though I am going down a rabbit hole, I deeply love and accept myself
Even though I am sabotaging my success with all of the SQUIRREL MOMENTS, I deeply love and accept myself

Another squirrel moment.
I keep getting distracted.
Going down another rabbit hole.
It’s just my way of procrastinating,
and procrastinating is sabotage.
I don’t know why I am procrastinating.
I know procrastination and sabotage are based in fear.
What is it I am afraid of?
Am I afraid of success?
It would be a BIG CHANGE.
Lots of new leadership responsibilities.
I feel responsible for my team members success.
It will be overwhelming.
People will want more of my time and attention.
I will be WAY outside of my comfort zone.
Afraid I will let people down.
I don’t want to be judged.
(Fill in any fears you are aware of)
I’m handling about all I can do right now,
If I take action and succeed,
I’m going to have to handle a whole lot more
That seems too overwhelming.
I am resisting success but I want success.
I know this sabotage is coming from my subconscious.
I want success but I keep sabotaging.
I am afraid I won’t be able to do this.

I’m getting older and I feel like life is passing by.
All I do is work, come home and fix dinner, Sleep, Work and Repeat.
Over and over again work, come home and fix dinner, Sleep, Work and Repeat.
Is this all there is to life?
Am I going to have to work all my life and never really have a LIFE?!
I want to do this network marketing business so I can change all of that.
I want to work from home doing something I LOVE.
I want FREEDOM to do what I want, when I want!
I’m so DONE with being a compulsive clock watcher!
Counting the minutes until I can go home!
I want both time and financial FREEDOM!

I am releasing the fear of stepping outside of my comfort zone.
My LIFE is at stake here!
A life I enjoy! Not a live of slavery to the time clock!
I am releasing the habit of putting things off.
Releasing and clearing at a cellular level.
Going back to my past, where I got the message that success was not safe for me.
Maybe it came from a past experience where some success I had came with negative consequences.
Releasing and clearing at a cellular level.
Letting go of the fear!
Letting go of the SQUIRREL MOMENTS!
I am releasing the habit of procrastination.
Letting go of the fear of what will happen.
Release and let go of the fear of taking action.

I choose to feel safe and confident in my action.
I choose to get moving.
I am stepping out of my comfort zone.
I choose to move forward one step at a time.
I feel good moving forward.
I enjoy taking action.
I feel good moving forward.
I know what I need to do and I am getting it done.
I have the power to change my life.
I know what I need to do and I am getting it done.
I have the power to change my life
I am celebrating change and transition.
I know what I need to do and I am getting it done.
I feel confident about becoming successful.
I choose to achieve success,
and show others that they can do it too.
Being successful is a much better way to do this!
I can handle it!
I am attracting an ABUNDANT LIFE!



I rarely do EFT without using some oils to enhance the tapping. If you would like to really power up your tapping, check out the EFT Oils.

Do you ever have feelings of guilt in your network marketing business? Let’s face it, we all do from time to time. Things happen. You get overwhelmed and discouraged. That’s when the procrastination starts. It can become a negative, progress blocking cycle. That’s when the guilt sets in and you start emotionally beating yourself up.


You may feel like you let your leader or mentor down. You had plans to do something with the business but time you start feeling embarrassed because you feel like the upline leader is disappointed in your progress. If this proceeds for any length of time the guilt can grow bigger to the point where you feel stuck and maybe even like giving up.


Let me stop here and tell you that your upline has been there and cares about you and understands that you will have times when your productivity will drop. This happens. Never feel embarrassed. Call your upline and have a mastermind session.


Here are a few things that can cause that niggly guilt feeling:


    Not as consistent as I wanted to be.
    Didn’t talk to anyone about the business or products.
    Didn’t have brochures or other prospecting tools with me to share with people I talk to.
    Didn’t check my email.
    Didn’t promptly respond to someone’s request for more information.
    I haven’t followed up on leads.
    It’s been way too long since I posted on my blog.
    It’s been way too long since I made a video.
    I wasn’t as good at communicating with my downline as I should have been.
    Haven’t been listening to audios or doing training that will make me stronger.

The list could go on but you get the idea.


Guilt is very destructive for your business. It is a very negative emotion that blocks theRelease Guilt abundance energy. You want to be feeling an abundant and prosperous energy when you are conducting your daily business activities, especially prospecting and following up on leads. When you feel guilty you can start feeling depressed and then beating up on yourself emotionally. This can get into a downward spiral.


We all have it from time to time. Whenever you start feeling the guilt, STOP and Forgive yourself. Remember that we all have these feelings sometimes. We all mess up. We all have times when we don’t feel like following up on leads. We all have moments when we are not as communicative as we should be. It is those times we need to pick ourselves up and readjust to get back on track.


It is for those times that I wrote the EFT tapping script below. It’s an EFT script to help you release guilt feelings and help you re-energize.

I like to use Release essential oil blend while tapping on the negative feelings, then shift to any of the more uplifting, motivating oils on the positive section. Put a couple drops on your fingertips and tap tap tap. 🙂


EFT Tapping on Releasing Guilt:

Even though I am feeling so guilty about not ____(following up on leads)_, I deeply and completely love and forgive myself.
Even though I have all this guilt about things I haven’t done for my business, I deeply and completely love and forgive myself.
Even though I am feeling guilt, I choose to forgive myself, release the guilt and move confidently forward.


    Round One: Focusing on the Feelings (Release oil blend is good during the negative tapping section)


    (eyebrow) I am feeling guilt about not doing things I know will grow my business.
    (side of eye) I know I should be ____________.
    (under eye) These guilt feelings are really getting me down.
    (nose) I can’t stop thinking about it but I can’t seem to get some of these things done.
    (chin) I will never be able to do these things perfectly.
    (collarbone) I see distributors progressing so quickly and I have been poking along slowly.
    (under arm) I am disappointed in myself.
    (head) It feels like I am dragging a heavy weight everywhere I go.


    (eyebrow) I can’t seem to stop punishing myself about things
    (side of eye) I feel just terrible.
    (under eye) My inaction is really causing me pain and guilt.
    (nose) I am so disappointed in myself for not doing ___________.
    (chin) I let myself down.
    (collarbone) Feeling so disappointed in myself.
    (under arm) I really need to release this guilt.
    (head) Guilt doesn’t help me progress toward my goals.


    (Stop here and take notice how high your level of guilt feels. What does the negative feeling feel like on a scale of 0-10? If it’s not at a 0 you can do a few more rounds on the previous sections until you get all the negative feeling released.)


    Round Two: Shift and Implant Positive


    (eyebrow) I have decided to forgive myself for messing up.
    (side of eye) I know everyone makes mistakes.
    (under eye) Even the Crown Diamond distributors make mistakes.
    (nose) I am forgiving myself for not _____________.
    (chin) It’s ok to be off my game once in a while.
    (collarbone) I just don’t need to be feeling this guilt.
    (under arm) Releasing and letting go all the guilt from every cell in my body.
    (head) Releasing the guilt and forgiving myself.


    (eyebrow) I release the guilt and move forward toward my goals.
    (side of eye) Letting it go.
    (under eye) I choose to forgive myself.
    (nose) Releasing and letting go all the guilt from every cell in my body.
    (chin) I am no longer beating up on myself.
    (collarbone) I choose to feel comfortable and confident in my success.
    (under arm) I choose to move forward.
    (head) I choose to readjust my efforts and make progress toward my goals.


    (eyebrow) I am charging forward like a Rhinoceros.
    (side of eye) I am confident and energized.
    (under eye) I am motivated and charging forward toward my success.
    (nose) I feel so much lighter remembering that even the Crown Diamond distributors make mistakes too but they still got to Crown Diamond.
    (chin) That feels so much better.
    (collarbone) I choose to feel comfortable and confident in my success.
    (under arm) I feel free and energized.
    (head) I AM confident, motivated and loving what I do.



Essential Oil Blends: Release, Acceptance, Abundance, Into The Future, Motivation, Magnify Your Purpose, Release, Valor


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Do you ever wake up feeling angry for no apparent reason? You just feel irritable and everything seems like a bother. You just feel like going back to bed. It’s a mystery to me why some days we wake up singing and other days we just want to bite someone’s head off.


I woke up in one of those moods today and I admit, it took a couple hours of nastiness before I decided I need to work on myself and do some EFT. I’m feeling much better now and I thought I’d share an EFT tapping session on releasing anger in case you have a need of it. You can come back here anytime and tap along. There will be days when we’ll need it. 😉


It is important to have a good emotional energy when you are working on your business tasks as a network marketer. Especially prospecting and marketing your business. Law of Attraction is always at work. When we are in a negative emotional state, we actually repel the things we are wanting to attract.


If we want the Law of Attraction to work in our favor, we need to be in a good mood when we are working on our business. This is especially important in the beginning when we are more likely to be easily discouraged.


Tap along with the EFT Session For Network Marketers – Release That Angry Mood




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