Personal development is at the root of every successful network marketer. I would be willing to say it is the absolute most important ingredient for success.
Our thinking affects everything. It is crucial that we build our success mindset.
Here is a video I did recently on why we must be ALWAYS improving our success mindset. I have also included an EFT Tapping Session on Belief.
Tagged with: belief • EFT for Network Marketers • network marketing success • Success Mindset
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You are so right, Melodie… Overwriting those limiting thoughts will enhance the skills we acquire and the results we get in our business. Far too many skip this vital step even though they desperately need this.
Thanks for passing this on to our group and others…
Jerome
Thanks Jerome. I agree. Far too many skip this step.
HI Melodie! I use EFT and find that sometimes I just dont’ know what to a=say.. I am going to borrow your wise words here and get working on my “belief” about me and this MLM thing!!
Hi Holly. I have had many times where I didn’t know what to say. I learned that I can start tapping on not knowing what to say. I should do a blog post on that. 😉 I just start the EFT with, “Even though I feel sad but I don’t know what to say, … (or whatever the negative feeling)
Lots of times we have an issue but we don’t know why. Sometimes just tapping and talking about the feelings is enough to make the reasons come to mind. Then you can proceed and tap on those things that came up in your mind.
I would love to read your article on not knowing what to say!! I will give what you have suggested a try!! Sometimes I have just tapped… no words at all… just knew I was stressed about something and had no words…. Thanks!!!
Hey Melodie,
You got me so inspired so I had to make a video which I will be putting up on my blog next week sometimes.
I so agree with having our mindset as the foundation of it all.
That’s where it all starts. Seeing the truth in that right now it’s huge for me; coming from a very negative, self pity state of mind.
Your share is appreciated!
Akos
Hi Melodie, I love that phrase “stink’n think’n” Although we need to learn techniques and other modalities. But what you are saying makes sense. You are taking care of the “inside” of the person focusing on their mindset and abundance. This is so important in business.
Too many fall off this industry because they are not working on their mindset. They seem to be too tight and wrapped up in the amounts of money and get it quick. It cannot work that way.
Your EFT priciples you are teaching us to shift to a better mindset.
I went through it with belief and it is awesome.
I’ve done EFT in the past and it does work.
I had played this video twice and went along with it. I feel so much better. Thank you
Keep on sharing, you are great!
Donna Merrill
I love your term, ‘stinkin thinkin’ Melodie! I so much agree with you about how important mindset is to your business. Positive knowledge is what I like to call it. But if you leave one of them out it will be a stumbling block for people.
Really enjoyed your video as you are very inspiring and offering wonderful advice.
Hi Melodie, I totally agree with you we are the ones who set limits on ourselves and if understand this we can easily overcome all the obstacles, thanks for sharing…
Melodie,
Mindset is important to your business, and I agree with you that it makes your day better in the long run.
Andy
Hello Melodie
Mindset is the key by which all success in life is attained. You shared a golden nugget when you said our thinking affects everything. Florence Shinn best known for her first book, The Game of Life and How to Play It said, “The game of life is the game of boomerangs. Our thoughts, deeds and words return to us sooner or later, with astounding accuracy.” All of your thoughts, beliefs and feelings along with decision make up your success mindset, these are all created and controlled by you. A Strong Success Mindset is Crucial because it makes you as mechanical and predictable as a calculator.
Thanks
Perry A Davis Jr
Music City
Hey Perry, I’ll have to check out that book. I haven’t read that one.
Hi Melodie, boy, are you right on the mark with this, especially the remark “if you have stinking thinking…” When I first began Network marketing, I wondered why my upline kept sending out Jim Rohn articles and quotes. At the time, I hadn’t heard anything about “personal development”. I really liked the Jim Rohn articles but didn’t realize how much work I needed to do on myself.
After awhile, I was introduced to a website owned by John Milton Fogg, called “The Greatest Networker Community”. The whole community was based around personal development, and there was a huge library of e-books, audios and training from many different personal development specialists. It was the best thing I ever come across!
Anyway, I agree 100%, it’s so important to read those kind of books and listen to the audios.
Hi Julieanne. I love Jim Rohn too. I listened to his audios in the beginning and still do today. I also was a part of Greatest Networker Community for a while. There are so many good ways to work on personal development.
Melodie,
It truly is an ongoing task to maintain a success oriented mindset. When one comes face to face with no after no after no, it is then that the winning mindset must surface. When your best business builder decides to leave you for another, it is then that the training and internal fortitude comes into play. When the going get really tough and you want to hand up your presentation book once and for all, it is then that those with a winning and success oriented mindset can press through to make the next call or attend the next meeting.
Feed your mind only the best stuff.
RICK
That is so true Rick. It’s an ongoing task. Things happen in day to day living that can bring us down. The winning attitude needs to be maintained.
Scarcity thinking is based on fear to lose whereas success thinking is based on prosperity from the inside out.
You are so right Melodie – successful people create great images in their minds when they think about their future, say good things to themselves and the result is they feel great about themselves and about the world.
We all have infinite resources to get where we wan., We just need to believe it.
EFT shifts us to a better perspective very fast, it is powerful!
Melodie,
I agree with your presentation on mindset is the focus point. I kept hearing I and it should be we. No one can do this alone and that is how so many people fall to the side. They get into the belief that they are alone with using “I”. That puts their mindset believing they alone must accomplish each milestone.
In our industry there is no longer the “I”. The focus is on we can and using leverage. I learned together we can accomplish the unthinkable. There is unity and balance with a group. Everyone supports actions to get things done. Yes, people still talk to themselves for motivation and focus. I am blessed and highly favored is my most empowering daily affirmation.
I felt the empowering words you present on this amazing subject and listened closely in how to tap my way through each step. I listened twice and then put it into practice. That is a funny feeling yet I did follow your instructions. Belief is the key and your insight I value.
I want to tell you all the good your doing and we all appreciate you. The support you give daily is priceless. Thank you for sharing techniques that are new to me and looking forward in using them for the rest of my lifetime journey.
Melodie, your remarkable and one of our greatest coaches. You have a style that is soothing and makes one want to hear more from you. That is a gift of voice and it feels great. Thank you for making my morning start off positive.
Hi Melodie,
Couldn’t agree more, Mindset indeed is everything. Every great civilization has this idea of mastering your mind. It’s the good old saying of “it’s all in the mind”, it’s how you harness the positive thoughts and good vibes and how you make yourself in tune with your goals. Human mind knows no boundaries, even science haven’t figured out the limitation of human mind yet. Declare what you want, work on it, and pay attention to what you’re attracted to.
Melodie,
Thanks for sharing your wisdom. You are spot on when it comes to personal growth. It is the # 1 thing I credit to my success in my marriage, personal finances and business. You are either learning and growing, or dying. I prefer to keep growing.
I’ve been in the industry 10 years now and I am a completely different person than I was when I first got started. I’m excited about the next ten years too.
Thanks again.
Chuck
Thanks Charles. I agree. I am a different person than I was in the beginning.
So true. I always notice then when I’m in stinkin thinkin mode that nothing ever works out.