We often think it is fear of failure that is holding us back but, for most people, it is actually fear of success that gets in the way of success. You may be saying, “No way. I really want success.” The problem is, your subconscious may be saying the opposite. There is often one or more subconscious fears that are blocking the way.

fear-of-successSuccess brings change and that can be scary. We all feel more comfortable with what we are familiar with. It’s called a Comfort Zone. To be successful in anything, we need to step out of our comfort zone. This is especially true as we are working toward raising our rank to Diamond Level in Network Marketing. Lots of changes come as you rise through the ranks in your company. You want to get to Diamond but there is a fear of the unknown. What will be expected of you as the team gets larger and larger.

Fear of the unknown can cause you to subconsciously sabotage your success. Lots of fears come under the category of unknown. How will friends and family feel about your success? Will they be threatened by it? Will You lose friends?
Will you have to do things you don’t like? Example: speak in front of a large group.

Success in network marketing will mean an increase of income. That can trigger a host of subconscious fears. You may have an income set point that you have running in your subconscious. There can be a fear of having too much income that keeps you sabotaging your success. You may be saying, “No, I really want more income.” But these fears are running in your subconscious. They are conflicting with what you really want.

One sign that this is happening is that you find yourself procrastinating. Procrastination is a way we subconsciously sabotage our success.

We all have areas of our life where feel subconscious fears that show up as resistance. The tapping script below might help you shift some of those fears. In upcoming blog posts I will touch on some common fears that people have in their subconscious programming and some EFT scripts you can use to shift to a more confident state of mind.

Add a drop or two of your favorite Young Living Essential Oil Blend to your fingertips as you tap through the EFT script below. Here are a few ideas: Abundance, Believe, Dream Catcher, Highest Potential, Into The Future, Motivation, Magnify Your Purpose, Release, Valor

Fear of the Unknown:

Tapping on the Karate Chop point:

    Even though I am afraid to move forward, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
    Even though I feel uncomfortable about changing, I accept my feelings and who I am.
    Even though I feel conflicted about success because I don’t know what changes will come, I choose to accept who I am today.

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Tapping through the points:

    I am conflicted about becoming successful.
    It’s all so scary.
    So much change if I am successful with my network marketing business.
    I don’t know what that will feel like.
    It’s way out of my comfort zone.
    I know what to expect when I stay in my comfort zone.
    Change really scares me.
    It feels more comfortable to keep things as they are.
    I am afraid of the unknown.
    What will happen if I climb the ranks to Diamond?
    What will be expected of me?
    I am so used to my comfort zone.
    It feels save here in my comfort zone.
    I want success so much but I feel the resistance to the unknown changes that come with it.
    This fear of the unknown is causing me to sabotage success.

    But I really do want to be free of the constant struggle of earning a living.
    Have time and really live my life instead of struggle to make ends meet.
    I want to be home with my kids. (Or travel, or spend more time doing ________.)
    I want to have fun working from home and helping others build a freedom business with me.
    That’s really exciting.
    Nothing to be afraid of.
    I can release the fear of the unknown.
    I AM releasing the fear of the unknown.
    I AM releasing the fear of success.
    I am releasing my fear of change.
    Releasing all the ways I resist change.
    I’m releasing it from every cell in my body.

    I have changed a lot already over the years.
    I have enjoyed a lot of the changes I have made already.
    I am focusing on the fun I will be having.
    I am focusing on the new friends I will be making.
    I am focusing on all the people I will be able to help.
    I am enjoying my success.
    I am feeling safe and confident in my successful business.
    I am eagerly anticipating all the unknown pleasures that success will bring my way.

    I am enjoying success and all the changes that go with it.
    I am allowing myself to make positive changes.
    I am enjoying the changes that come with success.
    I am joyfully allowing my success and the change that comes with it.
    I am allowing myself to feel comfortable with the all changes that success brings.
    I am excited about the unknown changes that are coming with my success.
    I am grateful for the positive changes that come with my success.
    I am moving forward and embracing change in a calm and confident way!
    What fun success is bringing me.

Tap through this script as many times as needed. This is one you could tap every morning as you start your day.

You may want to read the article: 5 Tips to Make Getting Out of Your Comfort Zone Easier

When you are working toward goals and moving forward with something that can result in big changes in your life, the resistance will often show up. The bigger the goal, the bigger the resistance we can feel. Change can be scary.


resistanceWhat will success bring? What changes will come when we are successful? How will our life change? In an effort to protect us from the scary unknown, our subconscious will put up all kinds of resistance. It feels safer in that comfort zone. The subconscious is always trying to protect you and keep things comfortable.


Sometimes resistance will show up in the form of procrastination. It starts with a negative feeling: fear, feeling a little anxious, maybe a bad mood. We find ourselves getting distracted by other things. When we start building our business we want success but we may find ourselves sabotaging our efforts because we have a subconscious fear of change.


EFT can be a very helpful tool in working through feelings of resistance. Try the EFT session below whenever you feel a little resistance.


EFT Tapping on Resisting Change


Essential oils that could be used with this tapping: Valor, Acceptance, Release.
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Add a drop or two of essential oil to fingertips before tapping through the points.

While tapping the Karate Chop Point, Repeat 3 Times:


Even though I am resisting change, I love and accept myself.
Even though I really love my comfort zone, I love and accept myself.
Even though It doesn’t feel safe to change, I love and accept myself.


Focusing on the Feelings
It doesn’t feel safe to change.
I have a fear of change.
Change really scares me.
It’s safer for me to stay in my comfort zone.
I know what to expect when I stay in my comfort zone.
I am afraid of change.
I am afraid to let this work because change scares me.
I feel safer in my comfort zone.


I’d rather stay stuck in my comfort zone.
It feels safer in my comfort zone.
I’d rather be safe than successful.
I am afraid to try something new.
I success would bring change.
Change feels dangerous.
I am afraid of the unknown.
I am resisting change.


Switch to Positive


I am releasing my fear of change.
I’m releasing it from every cell in my body.
Releasing all the ways I resist change.
Releasing this fear of change.
I have changed a lot already over the years.
I have liked a lot of the changes I have made.
I have enjoyed a lot of the changes I have made already.
It’s safe for me to make changes.


I choose success and all the changes that go with it.
I am allowing myself to make positive changes.
I am enjoying the changes that come with success.
I am joyfully allowing my success and the change that comes with it.
I am allowing myself to feel comfortable with the all changes that success brings.
I embrace change.
I am grateful for the positive changes that come with my success.
I am moving forward and embracing change in a calm and confident way!



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EFT Points:

EFT For Motivation


I have a little secret weapon that I love to add to my EFT sessions. What is the secret weapon, you ask?


It’s ESSENTIAL OILS!


When I teach fellow network marketers how to do EFT, I always teach them how to enhance their EFT sessions with powerful emotional essential oil blends.


To use essential oils with EFT, just put a couple drops of the essential oil on your fingertips and on the karate chop point before you begin tapping. The oil will be carried to all the other points as you tap.


EFT Oils - Valor
Valor – an essential oil blend that empowers the mind and increases feelings of courage and confidence. Valor would be a wonderful oil to use before doing anything that is out of your comfort zone. Use it before doing business or product presentations, prospecting, follow up calls, or anything that makes you feel fearful.

Valor also balances the body’s energy meridians and emotions. It’s a wonderful oil to add to and EFT routine. You can use Valor before you begin to help make everything you are doing more effective, then finish up with Valor to give you strength to move forward.

Procrastination is usually caused by an underlying fear. Using Valor with EFT on whatever you are procrastinating can help shift to a more productive state of mind. If you are procrastinating business tasks you could do some tapping on procrastination and getting out of your comfort zone.

Tapping Scripts With Valor
https://www.melodiekantner.com/eft-to-release-fear-of-change
https://www.melodiekantner.com/tapping-for-holding-back-from-speaking-up

https://www.melodiekantner.com/eft-to-release-quarantine-fears-and-stress
https://www.melodiekantner.com/releasing-the-anxiety-of-attracting-new-prospects

Motivation – An essential oil blend that may promote feelings of action and accomplishment. This is an essential oil that is helpful when you have things to do but you just don’t feel motivated to do it.

Tapping Scripts With Motivation
https://www.melodiekantner.com/simple-steps-to-get-unstuck-and-stay-motivated

https://www.melodiekantner.com/eft-tapping-for-those-days-when-you-feel-crappy-and-unmotivated

Envision – An oil blend that stimulates feelings of creativity and resourcefulness, encouraging renewed faith in the future and the strength necessary to achieve your dreams.

Daily visualization is really important for achieving your goals. You need to see it in your mind’s eye to be able to achieve it. Use Envision along with visualization. Just close your eyes and think visualize reaching your goal. Get as detailed as possible in your thinking. Tap through the EFT points while you are visualizing.

Tapping Script With Envision
https://www.melodiekantner.com/see-yourself-as-a-crowndiamond

Acceptance – encourages feelings of self-worth and acceptance. Sometimes there are things that happen, like the past year of covid. Everything has been different and challenging. Things keep changing. Some changes are good, some changes are not so good. Accepting things that you can’t change helps you to figure out how to move forward. Accepting things as they are helps emotionally let go of past mistakes and formulate a plan to move in the direction you really want to make progress in, no matter what kind of area you want success in.

Highest Potential – is an oil that was designed to increase your capacity to achieve your highest potential and be your best self. Use whenever you need a little extra inspiration, confidence and determination.

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Release is a blend with a relaxing aroma that facilitates the ability to let go of anger and frustration. This oil is wonderful with EFT to let go of things that are holding you back.


I have had a couple people tell me that they have an overwhelming need to talk and unload the negative feelings when they use Release oil. I recommend the “Tap While You Gripe” technique for this. It works wonders when you want to vent about something that makes you angry or upset. With the “Tap While You Gripe” technique, you just tap through the EFT points while you talk about whatever is bothering you. Get it all off your chest. You can say the words out loud or in your head but just say anything that comes to mind about the issue. Sometimes you may not even know why you feel bad. Tap anyway. Start with, “I feel bad but I don’t know why.” Then describe the way you feel and keep tapping on whatever comes to mind.

Don’t worry about getting the points right. You can tap all or just a few of the points. Just tap and talk.


Do a little mental gauge: On a scale between 0 and 10 how strong is this negative emotion? 10 is really strong negative feelings. Keep tapping until you get down to zero.

Release oil blend is really great for releasing anger and other negative feelings.


Abundance oil blend is possibly my favorite of all. This oil blend raises your abundance-oil-blendbody’s energy to the frequency of attraction so you attract abundance. Abundance oil is also very uplifting. Abundance is one oil I apply every morning before I do any business. I also apply it whenever I go anywhere there are people. That oil attracts business.


You can use Abundance oil with EFT when you are working on law of attraction issues. The law of attraction is always at work. Our negative emotions block abundance so we want to be shifting our energy to a positive attracting one. We want to radiate an abundance energy.


Abundance oil is also wonderful for affirmation tapping. Also when you are focusing on your goals.


Here is an excellent EFT Session that Abundance oil works well with:

I am A Magnet For Abundance and Success

Listen to your intuition when using oils with EFT. The names of Young Living Oil blends give an impression what they can be used for on an emotional level but sometimes you can be drawn to an oil you would not normally expect. Use whatever oil feels right. It will likely be a good one.




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