In order for you to create a different life, you have to see yourself differently. If you want to transform your life or your business, you need to see yourself differently. How do you see yourself right now? Do you see yourself as a successful person or do you feel that success is for other people?


It starts with a clear vision of what success looks like. Where do you want to go in your business. Do you want to supplement the income you already have? Do you want to have full time income working from home? Do you want financial freedom?


WHY are you building your business? If you haven’t really thought about why you are building your business, you need to stop and think about that right now. You need a clear vision about where you are going. Not only seeing it but FEELING it.


focusWhat you focus on, you attract more of. If you are focusing on what you do not like about your situation, you will attract more of the same. If you focus on what you don’t like about the way your business is going, you will keep attracting the same things. You want to be focusing on where you want to be in your business. Close your eyes and visualize how things will look when you have achieved your goal.


I like to talk through my visualization to help me get to the feelings. Use lots of feeling words as you are doing it. For example:


If you want to get to full time income, you need to get to leadership levels in your company. Visualize yourself on stage getting an award and say, “I am so excited for the day when I will walk on stage and get my award. I am wearing a sharp business suit and there are upline waiting at the side to congratulate me, people are cheering I am giddy with excitement. I feel so proud that I have achieved this and I love how it feels to be an inspiration to my friends who are also working toward this goal. It is so exciting to have financial and time freedom and be able to do whatever I want anytime I want.”


I like to visualize getting awards because it represents getting to the leadership ranks which means you have built a large organization. It is not the awards but the FREEDOM that comes with building your business. Add anything that adds to your vision of success. If you want to travel, add some visualization about that. Just keep thinking and talking about the way you would like it to be and the feelings that will bring.


Whenever you catch yourself focusing on negative things you don’t want, stop yourself and refocus on what you want it to look like.


Young Living members have some helpful resources in the emotional oil blends. There are several that can be used here. Some possible choices are: Abundance, Dream Catcher, Envision, Live With Passion, Magnify Your Purpose, Transformation, Valor.

EFT Session: I want FREEDOM!


Even though I am not there yet, I choose to remember WHY I am building this business.
Even though I always struggled with making enough money, I am excited when I focus on the FREEDOM this business can bring me.
Even though I haven’t reached it yet, I love to focus on the FREEDOM this business can bring me.

Round One:


(eyebrow) I love to think about WHY I am building my business.
(side of eye) I am excited to be building financial FREEDOM.
(under eye) I love to focus on the FREEDOM I want.
(nose) I am happy to think about having FREEDOM with my time.
(chin) It’s exciting to be able to follow whatever schedule I choose.
(collarbone) I choose freedom.
(under arm) I know network marketing industry thrives in bad economy.
(head) It is exciting to help other people fine their FREEDOM.


(eyebrow) I spend a little time each day focusing on WHY I am building my business
(side of eye) I am on my way to FREEDOM.
(under eye) I am visualizing FREEDOM.
(nose) I am growing more and more confident every day.
(chin) I am remembering WHY I want my business to be successful.
(collarbone) I am so excited to be reaching my goals.
(under arm) I choose to focus on WHY I am building this business.
(head) I choose FREEDOM!!!



Another great way to keep your vision alive is to watch a Mind Movie every day. I made up one for distributors in my group who are working toward Silver Level. You can see it HERE.



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If you really want success in network marketing or any important goal you have, you need to get rid of negative self-limiting beliefs. That can be a challenge because we all have things from our past that has affected our mental programming. Those things factor in to how we move through life today.

One underlying fear that you may not even be aware of is the fear of change. That is one I was really surprised by when I took an abundance assessment test.

I learned that I have and “intense fear of change.” Well, I have done a lot of EFT clearing things that blocked abundance but apparently not enough. Anyway, now to clear that block.

It’s funny, you are working toward a goal because you want to change things but there is an underlying fear of change. You don’t have to be a mental giant to see that is going to be a major block to progress. It’s like climbing up a hill dragging a heavy object behind you. The intensity of the fear determines how heavy the block. If it’s just a little bit, you may only be slowed down but if it’s a really intense fear, it could keep you at a standstill for a long time.

The fear of change applies to all kinds of things: business goals, weight loss goals, spiritual goals, etc.

Think about your business goals. What do you intend for your business? Do you intend to build a business that will provide security for your family? Would you like to become a Diamond in your company? What are the changes that would come in your life if you achieved the rank of Diamond? Would you have to get on stage at conventions? Would more be required of you as a leader? What new responsibilities will I have? Will I have to do public speaking? How will I manage more money? What will friends and family think of the changes in my life? There may be others you can think of.


You can do some EFT to help release the fear of change. Think about what it will be like when you reach your goal. Whatever the goal is, picture yourself there. What feelings come up. Is there anything about that goal that seems a bit scary? Do you fear public speaking?


Here are a few oil blends that you could use with this EFT session. I am starting with Release and Valor. Abundance, Acceptance, Believe, Dream Catcher, Highest Potential, Into The Future, Motivation, Magnify Your Purpose, Release, Valor


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Before you begin the tapping script below, take note of note how uncomfortable you are about things that will change when you have success. On a scale between 0-10 how strong is the negative feeling? Tap until you get the negative feeling down to a zero.


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Start on the Karate chop point:
Even though I am afraid things will change too much if I am successful, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though success means change and that is scary, I choose to move ahead anyway.
Even though I am afraid of the changes that are coming so I am sabotaging success, I choose to release the fear and move confidently forward.


Round One: Focusing on the Feelings


(eyebrow) I have this fear of change.
(side of eye) Part of me wants things to stay the same.
(under eye) It’s easier to keep things as they are.
(nose) Part of me is afraid of being too successful in my business.
(chin) This fear of change is affecting the way I build my business.
(collarbone) This fear of change is holding me back.
(under arm) What am I afraid of if I have success?
(head) What am I so afraid of?


(eyebrow) I don’t know what to expect if I am successful.
(side of eye) I know what to expect if I stay here in this spot.
(under eye) I am uncomfortable with the changes that come with success.
(nose) I know what I want my life and business to be like.
(chin) I know what I want to experience.
(collarbone) Why wont I allow myself to have it?
(under arm) When I imagine myself as a Diamond … Why not me?
(head) Why not me?


Round Two: Implant Positive


(eyebrow) I do want success and that means change.
(side of eye) These limitations are just illusions
(under eye) I am capable of greater success.
(nose) I know I will be safe in my success.
(chin) Releasing the fear of change.
(collarbone) Releasing this limiting belief.
(under arm) Releasing those old limitations
(head) Releasing them at a cellular level and really setting myself free.


(eyebrow) I choose to know that I deserve success.
(side of eye) I deserve to be happy.
(under eye) I deserve to have a life that I love.
(nose) I can create it.
(chin) I AM creating it.
(collarbone) Releasing this limiting belief.
(under arm) Releasing those old limitations
(head) Releasing them at a cellular level and really setting myself free to move powerfully and joyfully forward.


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