It’s always a good idea to do a little EFT before doing any business, especially prospecting. You need to have a good energy while doing anything business related. You need to raise your vibration. Never prospect when you are in a bad energy place.


People will be able to feel your energy. Don’t believe me? Have you ever noticed when a person is in a really bad mood? You can feel your own mood change. A sigh from someone near you can bring your energy down. Their energy is affecting you. You are affecting people with your energy. You MUST have a good ABUNDANT energy when doing business activities but especially when prospecting.


There are several essential oils that are really wonderful for raising your energy. Abundance essential oil blend by Young Living is the TOP oil blend I recommend for prospecting. Wear it like perfume but also, put a couple drops on your fingertips before you start tapping the EFT points.


If you have fear of speaking up, use a little Valor first, then tap through the points again using the Abundance oil.


Improve Your Vibration Before Prospecting


** Note: Do not get too worried about which points to tap on. You can say any of the phrases while tapping on any of the points. It’s why I love the Tap While You Gripe Technique. 😉 Just talk (or think) and tap.


Tapping on the Karate Chop point: repeat these phrases out loud, (or change the words to fit your situation).


Even though I feel prospecting is a little scary, I deeply and completely love and accept myself anyway.
Even though I don’t want to talk to people but know I want my business to grow, I accept who I am and how I feel right now.
Even though I am having a hard time approaching people, I choose to feel calm, confident and abundant before talking about my business.


Tapping through the points:
You may repeat the positive round more than once if you wish.


I feel the pressure to talk to prospects.
I feel so anxious and need to do something now.
I want to grow my business.
I feel so nervous talking to people about my business.
I am afraid they will not want what I have to share with them.
Prospecting really stresses me out.
I don’t know what to say.
I feel myself holding back.


I choose to feel calm and confident.
I do know what to say because I have prepared a few things to say that will stir interest.
I intend to feel confident when talking to prospects.
I love my product and I love sharing it with people.
I love that network marketing has given me freedom in my life.
I know this business can really change people’s lives.
I love sharing the freedom of network marketing and my awesome product.


I love knowing we all deserve abundance.
I am prepared ahead of time with what I need to talk to new prospects.
I am confident with the words I have prepared and the marketing materials I always have with me.
Every time I have to step outside of my comfort zone I choose to feel confident doing it.
I enjoy making new contacts every day.
I appreciate the prosperity growing through my business.
I’m grateful for all the new opportunities for abundance.
I appreciate all the lessons I have learned.
I am so grateful for all the prosperity in my life.
I choose to feel energized and motivated.
I choose to feel calm and confident in everything I do.
I love the feeling of confidence and growing abundance as I am prospecting on a DAILY basis.
I am good at what I do.
I choose to find it easy to talk to prospects.
I choose to find it easy to make new contacts.
I choose to find it easy to pick up the phone.
I choose to find it easy to step out of my comfort zone.
I love what I am doing.
I choose to feel calm and confident all day, every day.

Essential Oil Blends that work well with this EFT Script:
Abundance, Motivation, Highest Potential, Into The Future, Magnify Your Purpose, Release, Transformation, Valor.


EFT Points:



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We often think it is fear of failure that is holding us back but, for most people, it is actually fear of success that gets in the way of success. You may be saying, “No way. I really want success.” The problem is, your subconscious may be saying the opposite. There is often one or more subconscious fears that are blocking the way.

fear-of-successSuccess brings change and that can be scary. We all feel more comfortable with what we are familiar with. It’s called a Comfort Zone. To be successful in anything, we need to step out of our comfort zone. This is especially true as we are working toward raising our rank to Diamond Level in Network Marketing. Lots of changes come as you rise through the ranks in your company. You want to get to Diamond but there is a fear of the unknown. What will be expected of you as the team gets larger and larger.

Fear of the unknown can cause you to subconsciously sabotage your success. Lots of fears come under the category of unknown. How will friends and family feel about your success? Will they be threatened by it? Will You lose friends?
Will you have to do things you don’t like? Example: speak in front of a large group.

Success in network marketing will mean an increase of income. That can trigger a host of subconscious fears. You may have an income set point that you have running in your subconscious. There can be a fear of having too much income that keeps you sabotaging your success. You may be saying, “No, I really want more income.” But these fears are running in your subconscious. They are conflicting with what you really want.

One sign that this is happening is that you find yourself procrastinating. Procrastination is a way we subconsciously sabotage our success.

We all have areas of our life where feel subconscious fears that show up as resistance. The tapping script below might help you shift some of those fears. In upcoming blog posts I will touch on some common fears that people have in their subconscious programming and some EFT scripts you can use to shift to a more confident state of mind.

Add a drop or two of your favorite Young Living Essential Oil Blend to your fingertips as you tap through the EFT script below. Here are a few ideas: Abundance, Believe, Dream Catcher, Highest Potential, Into The Future, Motivation, Magnify Your Purpose, Release, Valor

Fear of the Unknown:

Tapping on the Karate Chop point:

    Even though I am afraid to move forward, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
    Even though I feel uncomfortable about changing, I accept my feelings and who I am.
    Even though I feel conflicted about success because I don’t know what changes will come, I choose to accept who I am today.

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Tapping through the points:

    I am conflicted about becoming successful.
    It’s all so scary.
    So much change if I am successful with my network marketing business.
    I don’t know what that will feel like.
    It’s way out of my comfort zone.
    I know what to expect when I stay in my comfort zone.
    Change really scares me.
    It feels more comfortable to keep things as they are.
    I am afraid of the unknown.
    What will happen if I climb the ranks to Diamond?
    What will be expected of me?
    I am so used to my comfort zone.
    It feels save here in my comfort zone.
    I want success so much but I feel the resistance to the unknown changes that come with it.
    This fear of the unknown is causing me to sabotage success.

    But I really do want to be free of the constant struggle of earning a living.
    Have time and really live my life instead of struggle to make ends meet.
    I want to be home with my kids. (Or travel, or spend more time doing ________.)
    I want to have fun working from home and helping others build a freedom business with me.
    That’s really exciting.
    Nothing to be afraid of.
    I can release the fear of the unknown.
    I AM releasing the fear of the unknown.
    I AM releasing the fear of success.
    I am releasing my fear of change.
    Releasing all the ways I resist change.
    I’m releasing it from every cell in my body.

    I have changed a lot already over the years.
    I have enjoyed a lot of the changes I have made already.
    I am focusing on the fun I will be having.
    I am focusing on the new friends I will be making.
    I am focusing on all the people I will be able to help.
    I am enjoying my success.
    I am feeling safe and confident in my successful business.
    I am eagerly anticipating all the unknown pleasures that success will bring my way.

    I am enjoying success and all the changes that go with it.
    I am allowing myself to make positive changes.
    I am enjoying the changes that come with success.
    I am joyfully allowing my success and the change that comes with it.
    I am allowing myself to feel comfortable with the all changes that success brings.
    I am excited about the unknown changes that are coming with my success.
    I am grateful for the positive changes that come with my success.
    I am moving forward and embracing change in a calm and confident way!
    What fun success is bringing me.

Tap through this script as many times as needed. This is one you could tap every morning as you start your day.

You may want to read the article: 5 Tips to Make Getting Out of Your Comfort Zone Easier

Do you ever feel like there are times when you can’t seem to stay motivated to do what it takes to grow your business and reach your goals? We all have days like that but sometimes we can get stuck in a pattern of spinning our wheels and making no progress. This can happen even when you have learned all kinds of good ideas and information that, when applied, will help grow your business.


Whenever you find yourself stuck and spinning your wheels, it’s time to get refocused on your WHY. Knowing WHY you want to build this business is a powerful motivator. This is crucial to your success. If you don’t know why you want success in your network marketing business, you WILL NEVER have any success that amounts to anything.


Have you thought about your WHY? It needs to be strong and emotional.


If you have a goal to earn $5,000 or $10,000 a month, that is not a strong WHY. Stop and think about why you want that income. There needs to be an emotional reason that drives you to press on through the difficult times.


For me, I wanted FREEDOM. Freedom from working crappy jobs that I hated that did not even help us make ends meet. I wanted freedom from bill collectors calling. I wanted freedom from the pain of seeing things that needed repair around the house and not having money to take care of it. I wanted to be able to LOVE my life. I also wanted to retire my husband from the high stress job he hated. There has to be more than the drudgery of working crappy jobs, coming home so tired you go to sleep and start over again day after day.


Your WHY is needs to be strong enough to pull you through the rough spots and make you push yourself to do things when you don’t feel like doing them. Think about it every morning and throughout the day.


Here is an EFT that may be helpful in focusing on your WHY:


Remembering My WHY


3377Tap through all the points. It doesn’t really matter what points you tap. For this one, I will use Young Living’s Magnify Your Purpose oil. Put a couple drops of oil on your fingertips before you begin tapping through the points.
As you tap, focus on your WHY. Picture it in your mind, feel the emotion.


Round One: Focusing on the Feelings
(eyebrow) I am feeling really discouraged.
(side of eye) I have a lot to do but I just don’t feel like doing any of it.
(under eye) When I think about all I have to do I feel stressed out because I just don’t want to.
(nose) I know I must be consistently working every day if I want my business to be successful …
(chin) but I feel like taking a nap.
(collarbone) I feel changes coming and I don’t feel like dealing with it.
(under arm) I feel like taking a break from this right now.
(head) I think I need a swift kick in the pants.


(eyebrow) I feel so unmotivated.
(side of eye) I know what I want to accomplish in my business.
(under eye) I really want to put this off until I feel better.
(nose) If I put this off, I am putting off my dreams.
(chin) If I put this off, I am putting off the FREEDOM I intend to build with my business!
(collarbone) I realize my subconscious is trying to sabotage my progress .
(under arm) I know my WHY!
(head) I am remembering WHY I want my business to be successful.


Round Two: Implant Positive
(eyebrow) I can shift this mood anytime and I choose to shift it now.
(side of eye) I am remembering WHY I want my business to grow.
(under eye) I am giving myself a kick in the pants.
(nose) Release and let go of the discouragement.
(chin) I know my WHY and I am thinking about it daily.
(collarbone) It is ok to relax once in a while but I am keeping motivated to get things done.
(under arm) I am remembering what FREEDOM looks like for me.
(head) I am choosing to be joyful and motivated.


(eyebrow) I can feel my intense WHY.
(side of eye) I see it in my mind and I will get to where I want to go.
(under eye) I know some days I get more done than other days and that’s OK.
(nose) I am choosing to feel happy and motivated.
(chin) I DO love and accept myself and I love my style of doing things.
(collarbone) I am trusting I will build this business and achieve my dreams.
(under arm) I am consistently doing my Daily Method Of Operation.
(head) I am remembering my WHY and accomplishing my goals in a calm and confident way!


There are several Young Living Essential Oils that are awesome to enhance EFT. Here are a few possible choices: Magnify Your Purpose, Motivation, Abundance, Awaken, Believe, Dream Catcher, Highest Potential, Harmony, Joy, Live With Passion, Present Time, Transformation, Valor Take your pick 😉

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If you want to leave off the focus on negative and go straight to positive tapping, try the tapping below.


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