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There are all kinds of fears that can get in the way of your success in network marketing if you let them. One fear that many people have is the fear of change. Sometimes change can be a scary thing. It can feel easier to stay with what you know even if that is not what you really want.


When you start building a business, there will be change. When you are working to improve your life or your financial situation, changes are necessary. Sometimes these changes can be scary and become roadblocks in your path to success. Whenever you find that you are not moving in the direction of your goals it is almost always because of some underlying fear.


The fear of change can be a big one. It is a fear that you may not even recognize but it could be getting in the way or slowing you down. It’s so much easier to stay with what you are familiar with, in your comfort zone.


Procrastination is one sign that you have some subconscious fear that is blocking your path. If you find that you are procrastinating things that would really move your business forward, you most likely have a fear of success. There are many little fears that can be going on.


Do you notice any little negative feelings when you ask yourself these questions:


If I am successful in my network marketing business, what will happen? Will I have a lot of responsibility? Success in the network marketing profession requires that I will be a leader of a large group of people. Will I be able to lead a group of people? Am I responsible for their success? Will people be calling me and asking all kinds of questions? What if I don’t know the answers?


Will I have to speak in front of a large group of people at company events?


What if I start earning a lot of money? Will people start taking advantage of me.


How will my friends react if I become a big success in this business. Will they change how they feel about me? Will they be jealous of my success?


There are all kinds of underlying fears that can become blocks to our making progress. Those blocks can cause us to procrastinate and not be focused on the tasks that really produce results in business.


When you notice you are procrastinating, stop and evaluate your feelings about success in your business.


Try the an EFT script below. It may help release the fear of change. Add any word changes that would better fit your feelings around this issue.


Young Living Essential oil blends that work well with this issue: Valor, Abundance, Acceptance, Believe, Dream Catcher, Highest Potential, Into The Future, Motivation, Magnify Your Purpose, Release


Even though I am afraid things will change too much if I am successful, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though success means change and that is scary, I choose to move ahead anyway.
Even though I am afraid of the changes that are coming so I am sabotaging success, I choose to release the fear and move confidently forward.


Round One: Focusing on the Feelings


(eyebrow) I know things will change when I am successful.
(side of eye) What if others start looking to me for direction?
(under eye) What if I let them down?
(nose) Part of me is afraid of being too successful in my business.
(chin) What if people look at me differently?
(collarbone) It all seems so scary.
(under arm) So many changes.
(head) I don’t know what to expect.


(eyebrow) I know what to expect if I stay here in this spot.
(side of eye) Success feels scary.
(under eye) I am uncomfortable with the changes that come with success.
(nose) It is easier to keep things as they are.
(chin) I am afraid of change.
(collarbone) It is easier to stay with what I am familiar with.
(under arm) I do want success and that means change.
(head) I really DO want change.


Round Two: Implant Positive


(eyebrow) I have decided to relax and let success come.
(side of eye) I know there will be changes.
(under eye) I am confident about adjusting to the changes.
(nose) I know I will be safe in my success.
(chin) Changes will be a good thing.
(collarbone) I release the fear of change.
(under arm) I DO want the changes that come with success.
(head) I choose to feel comfortable and confident in my success.


(eyebrow) I have decided to relax and let success come.
(side of eye) I know there will be changes.
(under eye) I am confident about adjusting to the changes.
(nose) I know I will be safe in my success.
(chin) Changes will be a good thing.
(collarbone) I release the fear of change.
(under arm) I DO want the changes that come with success.
(head) I choose to feel comfortable and confident in my success.


(Repeat the last section as many times as you feel you need it in order to shift the energy)



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Melodie Kantner

Melodie is the author of EFT For Network Marketers, publisher of Grade A Notes Newsletter (for 14 years), Network Marketing Success for Ordinary People and Esteem Power Newsletter. She has been in the network marketing industry for 18 years, 16 years with Young Living Essential Oils. Melodie has been teaching EFT to network marketers for over 10 years.

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stuckThere are times when we feel stuck. It’s a natural thing that we all seem to go through from time to time. It can happen in all kinds of areas where we want to make progress. For example, you want your network marketing business to grow so you know you should be making follow up phone calls, doing marketing and promotion, writing newsletters and blog posts.


Sometimes when building your business you can find yourself feeling stuck wondering which way to go. You have to figure out which ways to market and promote your business. Once you figure out those things, you need to use trial and error to test out what works for you. You may even find that you need to totally change directions. The thing is, you can’t change directions until you get moving. Think of driving a car. The car has to be moving before you can turn in any direction, whether a slight turn or a full turn.


The key to getting unstuck is to just start moving forward. Motivation never starts automatically. It kicks in once you get moving. Even if on some days the steps are small. Just take steps.


I love that quote by Joe Schroeder, “You don’t have to get it right, you just have to get it GOING!” The way to get anywhere is to start from where you are right now, learn and make adjustments as you go. If you don’t start moving towards your goals, you will stay eternally stuck. Even the smallest steps stir more steps forward.


An example used by writers is to just start writing. Don’t worry about what you are writing. Don’t over analyze. Just start pouring out words on a subject. Once you get the thoughts flowing, more ideas come to you.


The same applies to other things. Picking up the phone and calling someone when you are not in the mood can seem like an impossible task. Once you make that first phone call, the mood lifts and the next call gets easier. Exercise is another example. It can be hard to get off the couch and get an exercise session started but once you do, it is easy to keep going. I often trick myself by saying, “I’ll just do 5 minutes worth.” I always stay on for more.


EFT can be a really wonderful tool to help get motivated and get unstuck.

Here’s and EFT Script to help you get motivated:

Apply 1 – 3 drops of Release oil on your fingertips, then tap on the Karate Chop Point with the oiled up fingertips. As you are tapping the EFT Points, you will have enough remaining oil to carry to all the other points.

While tapping the Karate Chop Point, Repeat 3 Times:

Even though I am feeling stuck and unmotivated, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.

Even though I don’t know what to do , I deeply and completely love and accept myself.

Even though I’m stuck and don’t feel like doing anything, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.

You can add something specific you need to do if you want.

Round One: Focusing on the Feelings


(eyebrow) I am feeling stuck and unmotivated.
(side of eye) I don’t know what to do.
(under eye) I just can’t seem to get started…
(nose) I am resisting getting started.
(chin) I don’t know what to do so I put it off till later.
(collarbone) I feel stuck so I will wait till later.
(under arm) I don’t feel motivated.
(head) I’m tired of thinking about this.


(eyebrow) I don’t want to get it going.
(side of eye) Yes I do want to get it going.
(under eye) I’m feeling stuck and unmotivated.
(nose) What if I just start moving.
(chin) I know just making a few steps forward will start some momentum.
(collarbone) I am releasing the unmotivation.
(under arm) I’m starting with just 2 steps.
(head) I know I won’t stop at just 2 steps.


Round Two: Implant Positive


(eyebrow) I choose to feel motivated.
(side of eye) I choose to take steps forward and get momentum moving forward.
(under eye) I step into energy and motivation.
(nose) I choose to move forward one step at a time.
(chin) I feel good moving forward.
(collarbone) I choose to move forward in a way that feels even more motivating.
(under arm) I enjoy taking action.
(head) I choose to feel energized and motivated.


Try EFT with Motivation oil when you need a little help getting motivated.


Melodie Kantner

Melodie is the author of EFT For Network Marketers, publisher of Grade A Notes Newsletter (for 14 years), Network Marketing Success for Ordinary People and Esteem Power Newsletter. She has been in the network marketing industry for 18 years, 16 years with Young Living Essential Oils. Melodie has been teaching EFT to network marketers for over 10 years.

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